Thanks- i have read before that we're the two most stubborn signs out there, and we're better in business rather than romance, which is disheartening. I know he's an aquarius moon, and cancer venus, not only does the 'not budging' thing frustrate me, but he's insanely sensitive at the same time. As a Leo, when I'm dating or encountering an earth sign, i can usually tell they're earth because I get this feeling i'm 'burning them out' like.. I talk too much or am too abrasive, a problem I only have with earth signs- however I don't have this at all with him.
I suppose given the nature of taurus, and that fire and earth generally don't "go" together, I'm wondering how to handle his heart. But unwilling to change can be good and bad, because hopefully it means there won't be any surprises down the road, what you see is what you get kind of thing.