How can I make this situation better. I was going thru a hard time about 2 months ago. I had an experience. It was a teaching experience. No matter what, we are all connected. It's how we act towards one another. Being separated, rejected is not good. When someone does this, (or causes another to,) usually it's from pride, jealousy or even greed. How can I change this. On a broad scale, probably can't. But, in your life, you can make a big difference by just realizing that we are supposed to help one another. Have faith like a child believes in their parents. We are the authors of our stories. Sometimes doesn't turn out as planned but it's how we react that helps others and ourselves.