hi anyone lol
well if ur interested in reaading this my problem is this ...
my ex who i was with for nearly 7 years on an off i recently started talking to again.
we stopped talking after i broke up with him for over a year ( well he stopped talking to me )
i knew it was his way of dealing with it an i accepted it as best i could. recently we became friends again an actually started enjoying each others company i was there for him n he was there for me as friends do. things were going great an i thought we had a friendship the last thing i wanted from him was a relationship because of too much water under the bridge and i always feel there is a reason there in my past.
Anyway a few months ago i was in a fragile position because my uncle passed on from being in a coma for 3 years and i coped well on the outside until one night i broke down with my friends an he was there i dealt with it an carried on an after awhile my friends left i was hoping he'd leave to but he said hed help tidy up or whatever but he wanted more i found myself going there but was very honest with my feeling that there was no strings and he agreed.. after a few days of pretending we were still good friends he started sending me abusive messages and i felt very hurt that he could treat me this way so i blocked his number from my phone and have avoided all contact since. i cant bear to even look at him.
well to break it down am i right in distancing myself forever or am i selfish for not playing his game after all i broke his heart by breaking up but i did not love him no more and felt i shouldnt lead him on if my heart wasnt it it. love works both ways right.??