Hello Dear Sags. I'm a Scorpio, but I know what you are going through. My son, who is a Sag, has had the worst year of his life and it's been very hard to keep his spirits up. My beautiful boy has had a very hard life and he keeps fighting. He'll be 21 this year and is attending College this semester. I am very proud of all his efforts to straighten his life out. Optmisium is the best medicine.Don't let life get you so down that you don't have the energy to pull yourself up. surround yourself with those who love and support you and if you don't have anyone like that in your life, Love yourself that much and others will draw closer to you. Happenstance, Cheer up and let go of this man. He is holding you back from finding that one TRUE love in your life. He is holding on because he is unsure about his own life and if this thing doesn't work out with his new wife he's using you as a back up. DON'T EVER let anyone treat you that way. You deserve to be #1 in someones life, and he will always put you last. Your year will start over soon but keep in mind that with all people in this world there are ups and downs. Enjoy every up to it's fullest and learn the important lessons from the downs. Good luck and Love well

OMG!!! That sounds like my Leo Ex-Husband...Run for your life girl.... Control and stalking leads to abuse and beating down your self esteem. I would suggest getting a restraining order and continue ignoring any contact. Keep your eyes open he may be watching your moves. Call the police if you see him. Be careful. when someone is obsessed with you it can be dangerous and it sounds like he needs some mental help. Be Safe!

Gemini, Gemini... The Twins... They have two distinct personalities.. I have extinsive dealings with them... My son is a Gemini Get to know, understand and accept these personalities and a relationship can be possible.But be aware that they are very business driven and like their independance but they also love attention and love...Your job is to get to know which personality you are dealing with and adjust to their quirks. As a Scorpio (Just as I am) you can manage this because you are a skilled sign with just as many faces. Good Luck, and God bless.

Aries Love their independance...When they are in their twenties and early thirties they mistake this as they shouldn't be in a reationship. They play the feild but start to realize that being with a new person every week has no substance and begin to search for love. In the transitional period it may seem like nothing is differant and they continue playing the field. Only thing is they aren't looking for one night stands at this point, they are looking for a compatible mate and they don't have a clue how to separate sex and love yet. In time they learn and when they finally find the one who completes them there is no more room in their lives for playing the field. The one who manages to snag an Aries should expect manogamy but be understanding of their need for independance. If you can manage this He or She is yours for a lifetime. Aries are also intent on helping others and become such caring individuals it's hard not to draw close to them.BUT it also depends on their upbringing as well.

srqmare, Thank you so very much for your insight... Brad and I have the most amazing relationship...I've never been so happy in my life. We have discussed all the major issues and goals we have set together and are in complete agreement.. I have never been so sure about if soul mates or soul twins existed, but now I believe that I have found both in him. I tell him everyday how much I love and apprieciate him and that he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. As a Scorpio female my traits are loyalty and fathfulness. In other words, Its him and only him forever as long as he doesn't betray me. I don't think he will. I feel he loves me every bit as much as I love him. We have taken a very interesting approach to our relationship that most takefor granted. We view our relationship as a partnership.and we have found as a team we have become the best of friends as well

Update! My Aries and I are Engaged and are looking at setting a date after I graduate College next year....Things just keep getting better and better...I really don't understand what the moon ,sun and planets have to do with the day you were born and how it effects your relationships but here are our birthdays. Mine is 11/02/68 His is 04/05/71... Can any one explain to me about how the planets effect our relationship, because it's such an amazing relationship and has been for a little over a year.

Well? When is your birthday?... I assume you are a Scorpio or some other water sign... Maybe even a Capricorn.

toledo51.... Cappy men are hard to get over because they seep with ambition... This is attractive to most women no matter what their sign...Secuity is always a plus and when you can't seem to win over the object of your desires (A Work orented, stable male that you can depend on) You have trouble letting go, in hopes that one day you may achieve the goal of winning him over..... Unfortunately Libra, Leos,and Sags have trouble in the relationship area with a Cap because of the differances...Water signs and a couple of the earth signs are more compatable with Capricorn

As a Scorp. I have grown and learned how to control my emotions to a degree and curbed my need for control and posessiveness. You almost have to if you love a Cap... Caps have the same tendancy of growing and changing when they get older.. Men in general are sex driven when they are young so many cheat in the beginning simply because they aren't ready to grow up yet... When a Cappy is in love and desides to commit.. I have noticed that they are true to the one the have made the commitment too... They are as hurt as we are if their chosen mate cheats on them and just like a scorp.. won't stick around for it to happen again... Don't be quick to judge a cappy male. They truely want to do the right thing and it's very discouraging when their bubble is busted.Give them time to work things out on their own..be supportive and understanding and live your own life because it is attractive to them knowing that you only want to be with them because you love them and not because you need someone to take care of you.

tallula2U.... Hook up with a Scorpio and you'll find out..lol Prepare yourself, it's an experiance you'll never forget... You'll never want to forget it either.