Hello all.... I am going thru a Cancer male thing too. Came back into my life after 30 years, found me on Facebook. Ok, so its a long distance relationship and hes come to see me 4 times in a year and a half. I left him years ago and he still brings it up how I was his first love and I broke his heart! We get along very well, the sex is AMAZING!!! But it seems he does the pull back thing when he goes back up to his home and then acts really distant for like a month towards me. It is so hard and hurts me so much. I cannot figure out why. So, yesterday, (we have a full moon right now and I get very emotional during them) he was doing the ignore thing to me with texts, so I totally ignored him and then he tried to call me at 11:00 and I told him I really didnt want to talk. It just upset me so much to do that but I am trying to make him miss me a little and hope he will get back to wanting me again and get out of the "shell mode" as I call it. I had to comment on all these Cancer men threads, it seems they are very very complicated and once you think all is fine, they just pull back on you and you are just shocked as to what happened! And to top it off they are so loveable and you feel such a connection there (after 30 years it is so much better for us) and then BOOM its to the dissapear act!!! Hoping this little backing off thing I am doing does not backfire on me !!
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RE: Cancer man got scared in a new relationship. Please help me.
RE: The perfect cancer man till ..........
I have had a Cancer come back into my life after 30 years and let me tell you, it starts off all hearts and flowers and then BOOM they start the push and pull thing and just go into their little shell and you are like WHAT? I just never know what to say or not to say. They are so hard to deal with but so loveable too... and very sexy!! I just had to throw my two cents worth in there ladies........ love to read all the posts about the Cancer men, seems we are all have been through this with them! I am trying to figure out whether he is testing me or will this really work out this time. We are a long distance relationship.. Leos love attention!
RE: Confusing cancer man
I have to say we should go and hide during the full moon with our crabs! That seems to be the moodiest time of the month lol.... I have had my Cancer man come back into my life after 32 years.. We also have a long distance relationship and that makes it even harder to deal with. BUT he has been down to see me 4 times in a year and we get along good when he is here, have a great time, the man is the best sex partner I have ever had by far! BUT when he goes back up to home all the sudden he withdraws, acts real real moody and like he doesnt want anything to do with me! It is like this every time, I just cannot understand it. Me being a Leo, very sensitive and love to be affectionate and all the sudden I have to just stay back and realize it is his "shell time". He sure can be loving and so wonderful and turn around the next day and be totally opposite. A roller coaster ride for sure. Sometimes I just dont know what to say. I just try to stand back and let him contact me. I really hope we can make a go of it this many years later. So all your Crab other halfs, hang in there!!! They will NOT forget us for sure.
RE: Compatibility analysis
Hi Captain, Thank you very much for the compatability analysis. You got it right on with the moody highs and lows for sure. I love him, never thought after 30 years it was still there. He says it too, but being the Cancer (boy are they hard to understand) he is, he says he loves me but is not in love with me! Hmm I just dont know what to think. I hope it works out, I am hanging in there thru the moods and the good times. We Leos love to be loved for sure!
RE: Compatibility analysis
Hi Captain, I have an old love that has come back into my life after 30 years. We have been having a long distance relationship for about a year now. I love him so much, but he has some moods! Can you please tell me if there is something for us now? My birthdate is Aug.17,1959 and his is June 25,1957.. Thank you so much!!!