Well, the Scorpio Male has come around telling me he loves me and hates what has happened...I went silent after he grew distant and I had to drag it out of him that he was seeing someone new, which was what led me to stop talking to him altogether. He's text me several times only to be ignored until I recently responded, coldly. He then sent me a long message telling me he loves me and that I was real, that he would love to see me, talk to me, go to the beach with me, etc. He also begged me to respond so that he knows I don't regret meeting him; he's afraid that I regret the time we had, which I don't though he hurt me so terribly that sometimes I do wish we'd never met. Finally, he closed his message by telling me that he's so proud of me and that i'm amazing...any Scorpio insight on what the heck he wants from me? I'm in love with him and am getting that he's still in love with me, but the distance and his current situation make it impossible...what can we do? What can I do?

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Actually the Rising signs are Pisces and Cancer not the Virgo...

If he thought/believed she was his soulmate...but other things (distance, his insecurities and fears) kept them apart. He hurt her and is now reaching out by sending her messages telling her he cares about her, loves her, and is sorry for what has happened... but she hasn't responded because she is so hurt (can you blame her?).

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Would a Scorpio male (Cancer Moon, Venus in Scorpio, Cancer Rising) go better with an Aries (Taurus Moon, Sagittarius Rising, Venus in Gemini) OR a Cancer (Pisces Moon, Venus in Cancer, Virgo Rising)? Which of the two would go best with this Scorpio, the Aries or the Cancer?

Last night I dreamt about him...it's so unsettling to feel like you've lost your soulmate...

thank you, crazycap

Thank you so much, Mardepp! I have wanted him to come and see me and work out a plan, but he says that seeing me will only make him hurt more...he has very low self-esteem and I have always been his cheerleader and voice of optimism, I'm much more of an optimist/realist while he is an eternal pessimist. He sent me a very long message the other day telling me that he hates the way things are and never intended to hurt me, that he wants me to know that he cares about me and stated that he was worried I think he does not...we are young and everyone says I'll get over it, but we're 24 (almost 25) and 25 (almost 26) so I don't think that I'm being as naive as everyone believes I am, I've been hurt and heartbroken before as has he...The thing is that since I found out about the other girl thing, I have not been able to speak to him or return his text messages (I'm just too hurt) until today when I know he was on a plane to another country so I wished him a safe journey knowing that he was unlikely to see it if he was in the air and will not be able to until he comes back to the States. Oh another thing, the other girl is an Aries...which I know does not mesh well with Scorpio.

I could and would move, but he does not want me to because he hates where he lives and has always wanted to move away from there...so, he says that my moving there would make him feel like he was holding me back from opportunities. He considered moving to me, but because he is afraid he will not find a job he won't even take the preparatory steps...I asked him where he'd want to live and he's unsure, though when I tell him he will just end up staying in the cow town he was raised in he gets upset because that's his greatest fear (then again, he's doing nothing to change that from becoming reality). Do you really think the girl is just company as his family and friends have said? She is the complete opposite of me, unambitious, complacent, lazy...I'm just so incredibly hurt and heartbroken, his continuous messages telling me he cares and wants me in his life do nothing to help....

It was only because of the distance...he said that nobody could take his feelings for me away, but the distance just was too much for him. I'm not sure what to do because he is now with somebody else and I cannot bear to hear him speak about her or anything like that, what should I do? Thank you so very much for your response, I'm so utterly heartbroken...