Hi, I too have been feeling this way. The only way to avoid anything, is to get back on your shell. Do not hide, but use it to protect you from this drama filled life. Balance is what is needed. I am in the process of balancing these strong feelings of people to help and helping myself.

I agree fully. I am a cancer woman (on a cusp)with guy tendencies. So, this situation is far too familiar. Cancers are serious at the moment. But, also DO NOT pick them up and start spinning. Which means they aren't serious until you are right in their arms. We often find ourselves not ready for change and procrastinate for the right moment to make a difference. I have found that Time is what matters. It always has. To have this shell stuck on our backs is not comfortable. The signs are real and there. If you are really interested in him. Be patient and wait and see what happens. you may have went over top. But I think he still likes you. Give him that space that cancers crave. But, at the same time again they want to be..... almost smothered.