we are separeted working on a divorce don't want her back so ignoring would be the best i guess and for what you wrote on the other furum sounds like you are a great mother and a different kind of cancer,what ever our signs are life has a way also of changing us. at 36 I also live alone and do all my house work and take care of my children when they are with me I either have the time anymore for someone that's going to waste my time if I find someone know is has got to be a person that is willing to be in it for the long haul ready to work at it show love and affection (yeah that will be easy.) LOL

you hit the nail on the head

Sandran712 thanks so much for the imput. I can see that happening already she has said that to my kids and often ask me if I am seeing someone else when I say no she does not believe me she is extremely jelous it is hard dealing with cancer for a libra even when we are patient. I guess i should just stay away as much as possible. thanks for your advice.. LOL

Luazinha- mine had a lot of crabbiness but loved to be attented to when she was sick or stressed, but never cared for me when i was sick or stressed i had to deal with it myself it was to much to burden her with. now with my children it was different very caring, but loving only when she felt it. (very strange) now i hope for every relationship to work out once it starts just watch out for bad signs if it starts to feel one sided it is typical cancer but when they are in the mood to love and to share it i have got to say it is wonderful they do have their moments

could i get advice from a cancer women on how the best way to deal with a separation with a cancer women.

I hear more about the cancer man but honestly with respect to other cancer women my relashionship with a cancer women was just the same. it lasted 12 years of marrige and two kids. don't get me wrong we had great times but a lot of arguing over nothing she was not very stable emotionally always living in the past but only in the bad things that happend to her never saw the good any one would do and just didn't care very selfish I could't do enough the more I did the more she expected i truly felt unappreciated and I did just everything in our marrige to make it work. but still she ended the marrige and she is acting as it is my fault angry all the time like if iam the one who left her I am very confused about the whole thing. Truly I don't want to ever date a cancer women again it left a bitter taste. I hopeful the next one would be Gemini, Aquarius,sagittarius or any other but cancer.

Luazinha

I think like you it does feel like a root canal. I hear more about the cancer man but honestly with respect to other cancer women my relashionship with a cancer women was just the same. it lasted 12 years of marrige and two kids. don't get me wrong we had great times but a lot of arguing over nothing she was not very stable emotionally always living in the past but only in the bad things that happend to her never saw the good any one would do and just didn't care very selfish I could't do enough the more I did the more she expected i truly felt unappreciated and I did just everything in our marrige to make it work. but still she ended the marrige and she is acting as it is my fault angry all the time like if iam the one who left her I am very confused about the whole thing. Truly I don't want to ever date a cancer women again it left a bitter taste. I hopeful the next one would be Gemini, Aquarius,sagittarius or any other but cancer.