Happy New Year!! Thanks Captain!!! I put time aside to do ME TODAY!! I felt I had been for the past six months. As I began to feel confident and my state of mind had me feeling so excited for 2011. This is my year!!! I can feel the excitement even with a retrograde. Really been investing time in planning slow & steady changes. Felt so confident getting my happy back and acknowledging my feelings even if lonely for a moment. Hug self and this too shall pass!! Until I allowed that "person" back in my life for a few minutes (took a day well maybe two to not focus so much attention with that situation). Not my proudest moment. How quick I was reminded that my ego was getting the best of me! Downward spiral!!! Part of me wanted to give back what I received a dose of his "con" disguised as a "proposition". Thank you Captain!! Enlightenment of "Me Time" & feeling lonely at the moment help me put things back in perspective and back on track. I do not intend to miss anymore opportunities that are so exciting and right around the corner... So I remember what I learned and that is to love myself & open my heart. Much better boundaries this time because I have the POWER to value me. Even if I attract the same type I know I attract the right type for me!!! My Happy's Coming Back!!!!! So all please have a very blessed & prosperous year!!!

Here go's LeoScorpion. My North Node is Libra (Venus) and 2nd house (possession) retrograde and my South Node is Taurus (Venus) 8th house (sexuality) retrograde. I am meant to learn lessons of being flexible with setting too high standards based on what I give and want in return when I want it. Also, romantically, I need to stop being disillusion and persuaded by me me me from significant others and focus the love relationship on number one out of dire necessity. I feel I would be more compatible with an independent flexible and patient partner in my personal life. My affairs, family, and a strong foundation within myself may requires giving extra attention. Especially, since home is so very important to me.

And Pluto is Virgo my 12th of unconsious. So I gather if I am imbalance, I will miss opportunities that will bring fruition from my labor. In addition, advancement that will have much favorable outcome in regards to enlightenment to one's journey and adventure. Meditate and reflect seems like a good start to all kind of possibilities. The intensity from all that I can learn will be so rewarding...

Thanks with the help of another perspective when cultivating ones own garden...:-)

Hi ConfusedScorpion. I am Libra and he is Scorpio! I thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I feel very vulnerable. Because he showed up at my place Sunday (unannounce needing a place to crash and lay his head) and didn't leave until Thursday evening. I felt for him because I still have love for him. But we got on each other nerves and bickered most of the time. Mind you, I am on vacation for 2 weeks. We were both broke. He said he was here only as my friend, when last week he was here and I was his lady and lover. He text the majority of the time and answered his phone. I was really glad he was here with me but it felt that he wasn't here to be here with me. He wind up sleeping in the other room eventually making excuses up that his back was hurting from sleeping in my bed. There was never a good time to tell him what was going on with me. Because most of the conversation was all about him. I was going to tell my girlfriend tonight what happened because I needed someone to talk to. She called me stupid and didn't want to hear anything else. So I ran her around on her errands and shut down. I did call him later after I drop her off. When I called, I only got his voicemail. I guess my girlfriend was right, I got what I deserved. It is the day before Christmas Eve, and I really must start taking care of my own needs a lot better. You see as much as I like to think I am tempered, I wear my heart on my sleeve for those that are closes. I am very hard on myself when I feel I let myself be taken advantage of. I find it so easy to express my true self here because no one will know who I am, just that I have been very foolish. Thanks again ConfusedScorpion. However, 2011 will be a lot different. I feel that this will be my year to turn everything around. Including letting go of past hurts. I have read many self help books but that Scorpio has been my kryptonite. So if I Libra am diplomatic and gracreful and that is my sign too be. So be it, I can say what I mean without being mean. Or I don't have to say anything, let the Scorpion figure it out as I avoid him.. So I am done with my mistakes for the love I gave to him. I know I deserve much better. And love is what I will give to myself..... Thanks again....

Hi Cuspglyph! My birthdate is October 14, 1958 Libra is my sun sign. His is October 23, 1967 Libra is his sun sign but he acts more of Scorpio than Libra at times. Thanks for the reading...

Thank you captain for your reply. For the last 6 months, I feel I have lived as a hermit trying to pull it all together. My social life has been lived in moderation. However, work is been put at the top of my list. I had or have a friend, but that has been nothing but heartbreak. Yes, I do feel the need to be brutally honest with myself. Which I thought that is what I had been doing. For awhile, self reflecting or maybe self pity (which I try not to do) is been my inspiration. Also, I am waiting for a substantial raise that was promising so I make sure I sit here and do the right things because I have no margin for error. I am working on all my relationships so that I am not misunderstood. I hope 2011 brings me the happiness I feel I truly deserve. Thank you for all your help. If there is something you wish to add, please feel free. I enjoyed your reading!!!

This too is for the captain. I am Libra42 and previously posted Justice & Fairplay on the blog. Seems like you are preaching to the choir (figuratively):-) My bday is 10/14/58 @ 2:31 am. I would like a reading about romantic partnership in 2011? Understanding Librans feel successful when partnered as a whole. I wonder is it a blessing or curse? Because my House of Partnership has nothing in it. Confusing considering how easy it is for us to love and Venus being my planet of love. 2nd nature to open my heart and express by feelings. I analyze (maybe) I'm expressing my thoughts as well. I do try to hold back that part in fear of complaining. I try to edit so that I'm not a turn off or sound like imitation of a matyr. The Scales that I try to balance wonders if I should give less in order to receive more? As you aware, we are givers and can sacrifice our own happiness for it. Then later feel angry because I cant find my own anger. Have no problem stating my dislikes when I feel I've been wrong. My indeciveness looking at both sides (to be fair) has me torn. Karma seems to be the contributing factor. I hope you see this.... Totally interested in what you have to say from all of this.

Oh yeah! Thanks! Guess you could tell i am a newbie.

My bd is 10/14 and his is 10/23.

I'm Libra Sun with Scorpio Moon and Virgo Rising. I'm feel so many mix emotions at this time that I am vulnerable and can't sleep right now. I been exclusive to a Scorpio Sun for 10 years. I am coming to terms that he is incapable of loving me. I am bit ticked off that I allow him to waste positive time and energy of mine. I wanted honesty, respect, and love. He has no clue that I obsessed for clarity to communicate about us. He plays mental games to get what he wants regardless to whom he may hurt. Very selfish. He is hot then cold, sweet and distant, mysterious, and then open. I been with him this long because I love him. He is so charming, magnetic, intense, passionate, and sweet. Also, hidden qualities that surface are calculating, hidden agenda, mysterious, prideful, blamer, and a womanizer. Still, he can be a good person with great ideas. I feel lost because I am questioning what is true. Thought I understood but I am being avoided and blown off. This is not my proudest moment because I have broken into his voice mail without his knowledge. Just to discover I am being rotated. There is at least 5 or 6 of us. So unfair. And boy do we sound the same. That explains why he keep his voice mail full. He doesn't want to hear the BS. I am upset because I needed him to be upfront. I been loyal and exclusive. So I give my best and my return seems to be crumbs. We didn't start off like this. God, he must lost the respect for me. It was mutual support and respect at one time. He could have let me go. He should be very grateful that I try to be my best and not be a vindictive spirit. In lieu of bad karma and hurting others, I had a good mind to forward the voice mail to all parties and expose his #%/*. So I choose to air out my feeling here instead of holding it in. Since, he does not have a clue what I did or what I know, he probably think we broke up because he thinks I sabotage us and I'm emotionally unstable. The saying look for snakes and get bit. True!! I know what to do already. I'm not going to pretend thou that I don't have feelings. This emotional roller coaster feels like I got blind-sided. Now I must show diplomacy and bow out gracefully while I accept the betrayal. I have to be the bigger person and be nice when deep down that's not the plan I have in mind. If I want good karma this is the plan for my blessings. This is where I am after putting all my eggs in one basket and not keeping my options open. I want to understand WTH? The process that lies ahead will be better in the end but just getting there, the time to go through it is what I am not looking forward to. It can be challenging doing the right thing. Part of life I guess. I accept him as he is. He not the guy for me now. I am left here with unanswered questions, feelings, and would it really make a difference? Part of me wants to let him know what I did but this is not my first time. He wasn't very happy about it way back then. Man, I must have had rose-colored glasses on all alone. My no means I am proud of what I did. But can anyone imagine how well I must know or observe an individual to figure out the 4 digit code. I am in disbelief that I did it twice (no means am I bragging). After realizing it worked the nervous energy I had made me question me. Like are you serious? Do you really want to do this again? That I am stooping to this level. I'm looking for some feedback.

This too is for the captain. I am Libra42 and previously posted Justice & Fairplay on the blog. Seems like you are preaching to the choir (figuratively):-) My bday is 10/14/58 @ 2:31 am. I would like a reading about romantic partnership in 2011? Understanding Librans feel successful when partnered as a whole. I wonder is it a blessing or curse? Because my House of Partnership has nothing in it. Confusing considering how easy it is for us to love and Venus being my planet of love. 2nd nature to open my heart and express by feelings. I analyze (maybe) I'm expressing my thoughts as well. I do try to hold back that part in fear of complaining. I try to edit so that I'm not a turn off or sound like imitation of a matyr. The Scales that I try to balance wonders if I should give less in order to receive more? As you aware, we are givers and can sacrifice our own happiness for it. Then later feel angry because I cant find my own anger. Have no problem stating my dislikes when I feel I've been wrong. My indeciveness looking at both sides (to be fair) has me torn. Karma seems to be the contributing factor. I hope you see this.... Totally interested in what you have to say from all of this.

I hope I find a loyal and trustworthy anything on a given any day. My Sun sign is Libra, my Moon sign is Scorpio, and my Rising sign is Virgo. Since the moon has the tendency to rotate on a daily for 28 days by changing its shape. It has the tendency to reveal what is dark and shadowy. I say this because my Scorpio side can even scare the hell out of me just alone by my thoughts. I understand deeply how sensitive that sign can be. Its the only sign that can bite off his tail and grow another. That is when I cling to my Libra side. There is a theory that Librans are successful when partnered. Can balance pretty much of anything because we are always looking for the beauty of things. However, there is that one thing that bugs me is when my scales are tipped. It is a struggle to maintain balance. I think that is what makes us be perceived as indecisive. In actuality, I chose to believe that it takes us a little longer to decide because we are considering both sides. I do think the commonality of Librans is "We are all about the Love". When I review at my birth chart, I notice my House of Partnership is empty. My inner voice focus on that a lot. Too much at times because without love I don't feel as whole. Its a missing ingredient. Not sure if it is the idea that I am in love with. We stand for equality, justice, and fairplay. I do believe that whole-heartedly when it comes to me. I am charming, graceful, diplomatic, sociable, love fun, see beauty in anything, very analytical but trustworthy. Human kindness and consideration is like music to my ears. Takes me a minute to trust but when I do I am like man best friend. Betrayal cuts me deeply because I have a hard time understanding why. But as a Libra, I am forgiving and will turn the other cheek sometimes too many times. Because I want to see the good in people. They say my sign is gullible. Maybe there is some truth to that. You see I have cheated before but it took a lot for me to get to that point. Mostly, I have been the one who is cheated on. I am known as a heart-felt person probably why I allow situations to affect me so deep. Kind of hard for me to not where my heart on sleeve. I struggle to hide it. I do work on it because of diplomacy. Positive energy makes me soar. And the negative energy will cause me to stew. Since I want peace and strive on balance, conflict I do my best to avoid. Even to the extent of taking care of others before myself. And then I have the nerve to get mad not even later. I hear sympathy and pride kills. I am learning to set better boundaries because my feelings hurt very easily. Because sometimes my giving is overkill. The female Librans I know have many likes but don't have a problem letting you know are dislikes. I think by the time I become selfish, I have endured so much I probably am perceived as a drama queen because I allow myself to be that doormat. Not on purpose. Oh yee, you done me wrong feel my roar. Remember my fair play has given a little bit too much. And that's when my Scorpio side kicks in. Since it scares me thats when I reminded how important it is for me to forgive. I become angry with me and then I wonder why I suffer and takes thing to heart. I think Librans should be careful. Because "martyrs" we are not. Then thats when I decide to let the law of the land "justice" take care of it self. Revenge is not part of my plan. Those scales go through a balancing act that I ask why am I so hard on myself. Probably, because of what I give. I would prefer appreciation and not be taken advantage of.