Hi Liana, I am also disappointed w/some friends of mine that are men. I hear them talking about women and they are more interested in "that" than anything else. Go w/ what your instincts tell you and don't go against your better judgment. If you don't want to get hurt, it's better (much better) to wait. I wouldn't get serious unless he shows you something concrete whether in words, actions etc. And that usually takes a while--right.