Yes he definitely led the pace of the relationship. In the beginning, I told him how we weren't getting into anything, etc. and then boom! We talked about how neither one of us was looking for anything but found something wonderful (or so we thought). I can honestly say I wasn't looking for anything from him. I told him I didn't need a husband, a father for my child or anyone to pay my bills. It's the purest form of love I think I've ever felt before. Everything I have read about Virgo men fits him to a "T". It also states that Libra's optimism can turn around any critical or pessimistic Virgo. We were together some this past weekend and we both acknowledged that we'd missed each other but I know he hasn't changed who he is as far as what he wants in a relationship right now. He asked me about every guy he'd seen me talking to since we broke up. I wanted to shout at him and say "you made the choice not to be with me!" I realize those comments were just him doing his controlling thing. I have to move on now it's just really difficult. I've never felt quite like this.

Also, I'm a libra woman if that makes any difference!

I dated a Virgo man for about 8 months and it ended rather abruptly with him saying "I didn't expect it to get as serious as it did as quickly as it did." We'd talked about our future and he seemed really happy; we both were. Another excuse was that he "didn't want to be tied down" and many others and my heart is broken. I was just wondering if any of you had dated Virgo men and what your experiences were? Thanks!