I am a Leo and I have had a longtime relationship with a male leo. Here's what I think:

He may think you are not that into him because as a Gemini, you may not be giving him the devoted attention that we Leos crave. It sounds like he keeps pitching you softballs and you won't take a swing. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't keep texting you. We Leos can come off as confident and popular but we have our insecurities and we don't take rejection well. He is probably used to women throwing themselves at him.

I think you should invite him out. Maybe to one of your DJ gigs. If he's interested he'll show up. You can have drinks afterward. If he's not interested, he still may show up but with a date!

Oh and don't be surprised if he is going out with other women. We like to keep our options open until we find "the one". Don't take it personally. We just love attention from those we are attracted to and Leos often attract many people.

This is an excellent article and it encapsulates one of the lessons I'm learning.

Letting go of an unrequited or unavailable love frees up space in your life for real love to come in. However, we must be patient and not jump into a similar non loving relationship. So the real question is NOT - "will he ever love me?"" " or ""when will I meet my true love?" but rather

"How can I love myself?"

I used to ask for readings all the time about an unavailable man in my life. I don't anymore because it doesn't matter. If it is meant to be or if he decides to change then I will know it. But I only have control of my thoughts, feelings and actions. I'm moving forward and letting life unfold before me. I'm not even trying to meet anyone else right now. As hard as it is, its time for me to be alone right now.

Anyway, don't want to get too carried away with my reflecting. Great article Captain

Thanks!

Hi,

what happens if you keep asking the tarot the same question over and over?

Also, how long does a reading last? Most of the answers I receive only reflect the current situation but not really the future or actual advice. Does this mean the future outcome is uncertain?

For example - a recent 3 card spread

3 of cups - the hermit - 3 of swords.

this does relate to my life - I was in a relationship that was in many ways quite pleasant - represented by the 3 of cups, but I became dissatisfied and started searching and thinking about whether or not it is the relationship for me. I guess this soul searching is represented by the hermit. This has caused the temporary(?) breakup of the relationship, which is what I feel is needed but that doesn't mean it hasn't been painful or caused a lot of grief to my partner. I think this grief is represented by the 3 of swords.

So as you can this spread represents my current situation but does not offer any solution or insight into the future. Is this because no question was asked? It was just a read on me? That makes since but I thought the fhird card was the future card. does that mean I'm going to be sad about this situation into the future? Any advice from experienced Tarot readers would be appreciated.

P.S- this board is a little strange. I see very little tarot discussion here. hope I'm posting in the right place!

I think the book is called Soul Mate Secrets by Arielle Ford

I haven't tried it yet because I'm not ready to meet my soulmate yet. Have a lot of personal stuff to work through.

Have you tried using the Law of Attraction to find

your soulmate? I've read several articles about

it. Anyway the following is supposed to work:

think about the qualities you are seeking in a mate.

Write them down. Then put the list away. Some say that

you should burn the list(make a copy first) and scatter

the ashes. This symbolizes that you have sent your request to the Universe. Once you make your request, you must release your attachment to it. You must not worry about when or where you will meet your love. You just have to act and believe that you will meet him one day. There was a great

article on this subject on Oprah.com

Why do women accept married men?

Why do men accept married women?

(yes, it happens)

The answer is simple:

because we are human. The heart wants what it wants.

Because people lie to one another and themselves and they want so badly

to believe those lies.

Ms. Sunny,

don't know why you want to slap me or anyone. I just gave an alternate point of view.

You could just ignore me, like everyone else on the thread. Or you could just stop reading

the thread if it irritates you. But hey if it makes you feel good to send me psychic slaps, slap

away! Not a very good use of your gift though.

Well let me add to my post because I don't want to offend anyone

I believe psychics and mediums can tell us a lot about the past and ourselves

they can bring messages from Spirit(but I think we can all do that if we try).

I think they can advise us on issues in our lives by giving us insight into

possibilities. I'm just not sure about the future because I think our free will

changes it constantly.

Anyway, I'm not trying to hate on anyone just presenting

an alternate way for Lil Dolphin to look at her situation.

Lil Dolphin,

trust your own intuition. If you know in your heart that you will be with him, then make it happen.

Contact him when you are ready. No one on this board knows the future because the future doesn't exist yet. I believe what they are seeing or feeling are just possibilities based on

where you are today. You have a lot of doubt and uncertainty and thatvis what is being picked up on.

That's why I know longer want anyone to read me.

I will manifest my own future... You should too!

P.S- if a reader needs to know the whole situation , then it's not really

a read is it?

Lil Dolphin,

I just want to add that as a Pisces, you should really tap into your own intuitive side,

Your sign is known for that