Hi Astra,
Thanks for the reading.
Your reading is absolutely right! the "water" that you are referring to is indeed our intimacy. we have been dating for 2 yrs and our intimacy was great for the first year and then it went downhill. when i asked him about it he says there is no problem, and he leaves it at that. Now we did talk about getting married. i had asked you a while back about him getting married to me, because he said that he never wanted to get married. now that has changed, but yes, i am very shy about discussing our intimacy with him,..cuz i can tell he feels shy about it as well.. and i dont want to nag..i don't know what to do about it. this makes me really sad. Now i was all about the marriage with him. and now i feel if there is no intimacy with this man, then what should i do? Meanwhile, he is an amazing bf, he has a great personality and so much respect for me and our relationship. I am completely in love with this guy and i really want to get married to him.
He will be back next week from his vacation... but now i don't know what to do! 
Tell me what does the cards have for me with this man, pls.
Thanks,
LL