Im a leo woman that fall completely in love with a gemini man, were both in our late twentys. Things ended about a month ago and im still devasted. By far one of the best relationships ive ever had, never fought, he made me smile and laugh every second we were together and everytime i saw him i got butterflys and felt like a little school girl. if i had to create the perfect partner it was him with one exception he didnt want to commit. We were together for nine months and at nine months i had asked him if he wanted to make what we had offical and be boyfriend/girlfriend. I told him how i feel about him and i know that he has some feelings toward me they may not be as strong but i know he does. His reponse was he didnt want to think that far into the future and that hes afraid of being hurt and being a disappointment. (mind you hasnt had an offical gf in over 5 yrs but has dated) So we broke up and i havent seen him in about 5 weeks and havent talked to him in about 4 weeks. Im not holding my breathe waiting for him to call but i secretly wish he would. I thought giving him space would make him realize what he had. A two weeks ago i ran into a mutual friend that of course brought up the relationship. He proceeded to tell me that he saw my gemini recently and he was so miserable and really upset and that he missed me etc... The next sentence out of his mouth was well you know him he moves on quickly and hes prob already seeing someone else... not exactly what i was expecting him to say.
So i found this forum and alot of great advice so i figured id give it a shot. A part of me doesnt want to give up (my heart) but my mind is telling me to move on. I move on for a couple days and then boom something else reminds me of him. Ive had two other serious relationships both were about four years long w pisces men. Im having a much harder time moving on from my gemini.