Posts made by leogrrrrrl

I've read alot of these comments about gemini men and at first I was inclined to believe them, but as I read on I'm starting to think that you can't tar all gemini men with the same brush. I have dated several gemini men and they have ALL been VERY VERY DIFFERENT. Obviously alot of you have had negative experiences with geminians...as have I...but really, maybe we should be thinking of these people as INDIVIDUALS and not just classed under this astrological sign. I'm just putting this forward to balance the view a bit because I can't help feeling that Geminians and cancerians are getting a bad rep on these forums lol. Live and let live!!!

Best wishes to you all. Much love xx

I found that after the first time we split, even though I knew he loved me and I loved him, it was almost as if I didn't trust him to not break my heart again...and it turn out I was right not to. It became an issue in our relationship to be honest. I became insecure that he'd leave and he would reassure me that he wasn't going anywhere and I started to seek more and more affection from him to reassure myself and the more he felt he had to reassure me, he started to feel trapped. It was a vicious cycle. I know geminians aswell - even though they can convince you that you're the love of their life and would never leave you, and FULLY believe that to be true themselves, their fickle nature tends to change them and a few months down the line they don't feel the same. It's not like they actively set out to hurt you, its just that they swing between these two 'personalities' and unfortunately for us leos, we've been caught up in it all.

Being a loyal as we are, it's hard for us to move on...hence my problem. It's just a matter of weighing up how much this person actually means to you and the amount of cr*p you're willing to put yourself through to keep them...typing this has actually made me realise a whole lot. I thought I was going to marry this guy, settle down and have kids...he told me he wanted that too. But I don't know...maybe they just aren't the 'settling down' types.

If there are any geminians out there that want to quash this claim then I would be very interested to know your views! lol

Stay strong wiz1

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Hi!

I'm a leo and my ex is a gemini. We had been going out for nearly 4 years when the other day (27th Sept to be exact), he decided to call it off between us saying 'he needed space' and 'he had to figure out where his life was going and did want to drag me along with him'. I accepted this and the split was amicable even though we were both terribly upset, yet now I'm wondering whether to get in contact with him?

It's been 3 weeks with no contact apart from one text from him when he heard I was taken into hospital saying he hoped I was okay, and really, I'm dying to know how h's doing/feeling/how his new job is going etc. We weren't only lovers but we were best friends and I feel like I'm losing him completely and it kills me.

Any geminis out there that can give me some advice? Should I just leave it and maybe he'll get in contact with me? Or should I make the first move? Would you be irritated if your ex got in contact to see how you were? I don't know what to do!

I still love him obviously and I've been putting on a brave front to everyone, acting like I'm okay...and mostly I am, but really...it can't be good that I check HIS horoscope as well as mine everyday to try and get some perspective on how he MIGHT BE FEELING. I don't know if by contacting him, I'll be setting myslf up for rejection all over again or whther this could be a good thing. What do you think?

It's importnt to say that he's split with me before. We were going out for about a year and a half and he decided to call it off then 'saying his head was messed up'...then 4 months later after a lot of toing and froing and when I started to move on, he came back and said that he wanted me back. Now two and half years later, I'm in the same situation again! Even though I'm coping with it alot better this time....HELP!!

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