sky80...thanks for your post, i did talk to my sons and listen to their point of view. They so against this, because of the age difference. They think that is impossible for a young man to be inlove with a woman old enough to be his mother. They think that he could find a young one, attractive and so on...(no that he doesn't have female friends...he does..but only friends, not that he is inlove with them..that what he says.)
Anyway they do put me in doubts and there is where my problems start. I doubt every small thing he does. Then i know i hurt his feelings.. but slowly he pick up the pieces and try to prove me that im wrong.
I see that i can't continue to doubt him..cause that will be the only reason he will leave me. (No matter how much he loves me he will go.That what he said.) He also says, we should trust and believe each other blindly if we want our relationship to succeed.( Personally i believe that you earn trust..and not trust some one just because he says so..) Am i wrong here?? this is one thing really puzzle me.
My older son thinks that i should find someone in my age range..that would be more acceptable in the eyes of everyone.. but i think that even older men look more for younger women down the track anyway...so is that a reason not to be with the man i finally found happiness with??? Just because his younger than me???
So many women out there having problems with older men..( including ME..my ex is 10 years older than me) If there is not love between a couple the acceptable age does not bring love. You love the other person for the qualities in his/her character,believes,and what ever little things brings a smile to you and make your day look brighter and your problems smaller.
So how am i going to convince my sons that sometimes there is real love no matter what age you are?