Dear Mikyo..

I would love if you could giving me a reading regarding my relationship with this man I'm in love for 2 years.He suddenly stop talking to me and not respond to my calls and msg's for the past 4 months and only he send me 2 text msg's..to let me know that he is alright and not to worry about him and 1 msg last week to wish me happy birthday and that he will send me a present soon...when i tried to text him back, he did not respond.I don't know what to make of it...I'm confused. He's giving me this little hope that he will come back to me. Is he playing a game or he wants to surprise me?

Please help me. What do you see in the near future for us? He is Aquarius and I'm a Leo, Thanks for your time.

Hi,would u please tell me if the man I'm in love with and i will live together? his b/day is 3rd February and mine 9th August. Thanks a lot if u can help...

Hi,would u please tell me if the man I'm in love with, will make the big decision and be with me? his b/day is 3rd February and mine 9th August. Thanks a lot if u can help...

sky80...thanks for your post, i did talk to my sons and listen to their point of view. They so against this, because of the age difference. They think that is impossible for a young man to be inlove with a woman old enough to be his mother. They think that he could find a young one, attractive and so on...(no that he doesn't have female friends...he does..but only friends, not that he is inlove with them..that what he says.)

Anyway they do put me in doubts and there is where my problems start. I doubt every small thing he does. Then i know i hurt his feelings.. but slowly he pick up the pieces and try to prove me that im wrong.

I see that i can't continue to doubt him..cause that will be the only reason he will leave me. (No matter how much he loves me he will go.That what he said.) He also says, we should trust and believe each other blindly if we want our relationship to succeed.( Personally i believe that you earn trust..and not trust some one just because he says so..) Am i wrong here?? this is one thing really puzzle me.

My older son thinks that i should find someone in my age range..that would be more acceptable in the eyes of everyone.. but i think that even older men look more for younger women down the track anyway...so is that a reason not to be with the man i finally found happiness with??? Just because his younger than me???

So many women out there having problems with older men..( including ME..my ex is 10 years older than me) If there is not love between a couple the acceptable age does not bring love. You love the other person for the qualities in his/her character,believes,and what ever little things brings a smile to you and make your day look brighter and your problems smaller.

So how am i going to convince my sons that sometimes there is real love no matter what age you are?

Yes..she said some really good points to watch out. I did move out and I'm living with a friend until i find a place of my own.

Thank you bonnie for your post, i do agree with you that everyone deserves to be loved for who they are and without conditions. I did live my life always thinking for others first..especially for my husband..i thought that was what i supposed to do..but i never had any love showing from him..and when i found the love i always dream off, from another man, i had to deal with age problems and family disagreements.You are right, i do deserve to be loved and happy at last. Thank you so much for your advise and wishes.

AirTwin,.. Wow.....what can i say....your story is exactly like mine..you know and you understand what is is going on inside my head and my heart..and believe me, for a minute i thought you was me who was talking.. YOU ARE an inspiration to me that's for sure..and i thank you so much for your reply. Good luck to you too my dear!!

Astrodame..Thank you for your reply, you are right..i shouldn't lose my sleep over small doubts, i also believe things have a way of unfolding themselves before you...in due time..that's true. It is the very first time that i know an Aquarian..so yes...he is mysterious to me.

Dalia....You are right...my marriage was not good...that's way now it is over... my husband never said to me a nice word or if im nice looking or anything to make me feel good..for 29 years i thought i was worthless wife...very low self esteem..while i had my parents i had support from them and i could cope but since they gone 10 years my father and 2y.my mother i really felt lost. Although my sons support me, i don't blame them for loving their father as well. The only person who really see me as who i am is my Aquarius. He is the one who make me believe in my self and my dreams and he says that im worth more than anything because i make him feel good about him self as well.

A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL FOR YOUR ADVICE AND YOUR OPINIONS..MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!

I hear a lot of things about relationships with older women and younger men..yes..love is the major part of this kind of relationships...but i'm concern about later on...will be the same 10 years from now??? we planning to live together as soon as i settle my financial matters with my ex.( i left home 2 weeks ago) he tells me that he cant live without me and he seems honest about his feelings..but why he is secretive when i ask him about his female friends and some phone calls he doesn't want to answer when i'm with him?? He tells me to trust him and not to investigate and ask him questions..because if i doubt him he will slowly stop loving me. Can any one tell me if all Aquarius are the same?? Secretive, need to be trusted no matter what they do, no questions asked, and live happily ever after??mmmm....I'm a Leo and i want everything to be very clear between us...I really love him but also i want to know why he's acting like this.The more closer we are to move in together the more worry i get. WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Is any man out there who can tell me how they feel about older women? and why they attracted to them???

Star47...Thanks for sharing your story with me...i wish u all the best and good luck with your plans.How much younger is your new friend??? i hope you find happiness as i know how much i miss that from my marriage..but i found happiness with my young Aquarius. Also good luck with the reaction of your children hope they support your decision.