Thanks Tonille77 & MariaRia!
You both describe the situation really well.
I met him a couple of weeks ago and we have seen each other out twice and met up during the day once. I'm keen and I think he's pretty keen, but as you said MariaRia the communication is not the best (most of it is by SMS, and i think i interpret them wrong sometimes and him as well).
I think we are at a stalemate at the moment, I feel as if I have to initaite the communication all the time, so for the last week I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. Usually I would just let it go but when i met him I felt different as if we were destined to meet.
Anyway I would like it to go further, but don't really know if I'm going to have to do all the work, maybe thats what the 8 of pentacles is suggesting. I just feel I need a bit more from him before i put in all the effort.