A friend of mine has been in a relationship for almost 4 years. It has not been all peaches and cream but they have stuck it out. Within the past 8 months to a year the woman has been saying she is not sure of where she wants the relationship to go. My friend says he wanted to move in with her because he thought the relationship was progressing and the next step was to live together. Well since she told him this he has kind of backed off with affection (he used to be really affectionate). He told her that he was hurt and he was just taking it slower now. Well, low and behold, she is the one pursuing the relationship more now because she sees he is backing away!! How convenient. My friend is not sure what he wants to do at this point ...break it off or stay? Their birthdates are:

HIM: 3/1/71

HER: 3/26/72

READING PLEASE??? Any help appreciated!!

Thank you "Captain"..now I must dash off to look up obstinacy...LOL

serious 7 and the The Captain...thank you.

that was great advice...also you hit everything on the head exactly!! thank you.

Me: Libra 9/27/1968

B/F: Sags 12/7/1967

Thanks !!

Hello. My b/f and I have been dating since last March. He is Sags; I am Libra. He has been playing it very safe with me and we are more like friends and lovers. The reason he says he is hesitant is because I have two children (11 and 6), not divorced yet and have a crazy almost ex husband. We don't really talk about the future because he doesn't like to. He wants to take things one day at a time. I can understand his hesitancy but i want to know where i stand with him. When I ask him he says that we are better taking one day at a time. I don't intend to be married again. I love him and he loves me. Not sure what else I am looking for here but I think I need a reading of some sort!!