Now you learned the lesson cheating is bad and working on your own marriage is a must, you have to plan the next course of action. Is s** worth your marriage? Even though this mystery man is now being a jerk to you and playing you like a guitar now, and he probably doesn't want anything to do with you? Sounds like your in love with the Gemini, but he isnt in love with you. (A one way love.) I suggest you work on what you have - your relationship with your husband. There are many counselors you can go to. Try to save your marriage, you cant give something up unless you try first. A confession to your husband on what you have been doing, why you did it, and that you are thinking of terminating the marriage might help actually. Save what you have, dont take the easy way out. -Kay Oh, and stop talking to the Gemini, he doesnt love you.