Also, I am unsure what my actions should be. At this point, should I try to fight for him, checking in with him and letting him know I love him and want us to work things out. Or,should I stay away, let him miss me, and see what life will be like without me. I do know, I am unwilling to be in this relationship any longer if he stays in his marriage.

I am the other woman to a cancer man. He has been in a marriage where there is no emotional connection and no affection for years. He has two young children that mean everything to him, his only excuse for staying in the marriage. We have been involved for a year, and have an amazing connection. After much frustration, stress, and agony, I told his wife of our affair. We have had little contact since then, just a brief face to face filled with tears and anger, but upon departing he told me, we'll see what the future holds.

I am just looking for some guidance from other cancers as to what his feelings/actions may be in this situation.