Oh no, I'm so sorry! Poor guy. I lost my grandaunt, who was a very significant figure in my life, early last year. It was a very difficult time for me. Losing parents must be so much worse. I hope that he can find peace somehow. And I hope you can help him. Do you know how to send private messages here? I feel like I've revealed too much here and don't want to post my email address. I'll see if I can send you my email address privately. Anyway, my prayers to you guys.

I'm praying for you ScorpVenusTauMoon! Oh wow, I'm currently seeing this Pisces guy with a Sag moon, Pisces venus, Cancer Mars, and Gem rising (I know this thanks to his mom's scrap book with his birth info). We'll see how this one goes. But the similarities are uncanny!! Not happy to hear about your Pisces problem, though. Sucks. Looks like your guy lost his mom around the same time my live-in guy decided to go to back to school. He was an Aries. I think your moon conjunct your guy's ic in the 4th house will be a good thing for you because the ic is about nurturing and the 4th house is about home, right? Maybe you'll always be home to him, even though he has all these girls on the side? Not quite sure - still pretty new to this astrology stuff. Maybe things will be better for you once the south node is no longer in Gem (his sign) and north node in Sag (his relationship sign). I think this will happen in August. I'm looking forward to it bc then maybe I'll stabilize some. This is absolutely terrible, but I feel guilty bc of the way I've treated the guys in my life. I actually cheated on my live-in Aries with the Sag guy. I justified it by saying my Aries guy was leaving anyway. Then I mistreated the Sag guy. I was horrible! But I've learned from this and hopefully wont repeat these mistakes. The best thing I can do now is wish both my Aries guy and Sag guy the best love. They were great guys. You know what, ScorpVenusTauMoon, you deserve better than this Gem guy! But I do understand that you feel strong connections with him. Only you know what's best for you. You seem to be pretty honest with the whole situation. Also, it's good that you've backed off a little bc I'm afraid he'll just keep hurting you. Yeah, maybe the next few years will be easier for both of us! Oh - my ex Sag and I started on Nov 2009 and ended on Nov 2011 -exactly 2 years of off and on. It didn't seem to be over, too, throughout those two years until it just was. Take care, girl. I heard Texas is a fun state

Oh I'm so sorry. Speaking for myself, I think that deep down I have a lot of insecurities. There was someone a few years ago that really hurt me, and close relationships have been very hard for me. We were living together, and he moved to the mainland (I'm in Hawaii) to go to school. Maybe this is also your guy's problem? So then, I took it out on my most recent ex (born 12/16/1978). Like you, my latest ex also had a Scorpio Venus. I haven't spoken to him since last Nov. I felt that I just wanted to get out there and play the field since I'm still young (we were on and off for two years). I'm so sorry we Geminis are like this! But sometimes I hurt terribly because of how I treated him and am trying to change. I was hoping astrology will help me do this. I've been praying a lot, too. Does your guy show any signs of guilt? Where are you guys located? You aren't in Hawaii by any chance are you? (I know you said you're a Texas gal, but not quite sure if you're still in Texas). Anyway, it's too late for us considering my Sag ex has a new girlfriend (another Sag). I'm sure you'll find a new guy soon, too. Sags are very attractive! So get out there and find a good man! Let God deal with your Gemini player, as He is dealing with me. Good luck to you.

Hi ScorpVenusTauMoon,

Wow, this guy sounds just like me (the planet placements)! My birthdate is 06/16/85. And I just broke up with a Sag man back in Nov. That's so weird! What is your guy's birthdate? What's yours? Where are you guys located? I'm so curious about the similarities. Anyway, I hope you guys were able to work it out. Best of luck!