ok thank you. That is what I was thinking was happening. It is nice to get confirmation. I have decided to back off for now, and maybe he will feel more comfortable again.
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Hold on or let go?
There is a guy that I am attracted to and our interactions have been odd for the past 6 months. One week he will be quite open and friendly, the next he will not talk to me, but will still pay a great deal of attention to what I am doing, or will pass very near to me when walking by. I get such mixed signals. He seems like a very smart and intelligent person. I recently sent him a casual message online that he has not responded to at all, when he usually answers in an hour or two. Could someone give me a reading on whether there is still any potential here, or should I try to move on? He is a Taurus and I am a Cancer, if that makes any difference.
RE: Spiritual Boot Camp - Part Two
How do others go about letting go? I have issues of Abandonment and Intimacy stemming from neglect and abuse as a child. Trying to let go of the pain is difficult because even in comforting myself the phrase 'its Ok' comes out, and I have trouble accepting that. If I let it go, that means that what they did to me was ok, and it wasn't. I need to approach it from a different angle, but I cannot seem to find that other angle. I know it can be difficult to identify what self talk and phrases you used in this, but I would find it helpful for even a general feeling. That is what I am influenced by the most anyway.
RE: Lost in my emptiness
Thank you. I will think about those things. I really thought that I had come to a point where I had figured it out, but it appears that I have missed something.
I understand that it is very unfair to ask someone else to fix our problems, especially when no one else can do that except for me. And I really am far too inside my own head to be an optimal rescuer to someone else. And I am just fine doing things alone, but I really don't want to all the time.
Honestly, I think a lot of this stems from the very negative messages about myself I received from others as a child (especially as to whether I was wanted and worth loving) and I need to reconcile that within myself. The question is, if I am fairly happy with who I actually am, and I do believe that I am arriving at that point, why do I still long for someone else to want me too? These are the thoughts I need to try to unravel.
Lost in my emptiness
At the moment I am completely lost in the fog of my own emotions and cannot see the way through. The tarot readings that I do are not helpful at all, either not really applying or being contradictive. This often happens when I feel this strongly. But I feel so very lonely and empty. I know that I cannot define who I am through another person, and need to be happy with myself. And I am. I can function alone. I go out and 'Date' myself easily and happily. But I feel in my soul that I was meant to be in a pair, not alone for the rest of my life. But there is Zero interest in me. Never really has been, and it seems like there never will be. I get quite down and emotional about the whole thing, and have trouble bringing it back under control.Very Cancerian of me, I guess.
Has anyone else been through this? Any advice or insight? and how can I gain more control over my emotions?
Looking for guidance again
Thanks for the response to my last question. It gave me alot to think about.
I am currently trying to work through a situation. I really do not understand what purpose the circumstances serve, or what I am supposed to be learning from it. Which means I am not sure what I can do next to change things, especially when they are essentially out of my control. I cannot help but wonder if it will change soon.
If someone has the time to give me a push in the right direction, I would be greatly appreciative.
Looking for some guidance
I am having some trouble with this issue, as it is far to emotional for me to be able to do a comprehensible tarot reading or even hear the guidance from within myself when I meditate, so any help will be greatly appreciated.
A year ago, I met a person to whom I was immediately and strongly attracted. The energy was different somehow. Our interactions are always brief and superficial, and very few. However he has remained very important somehow, and recently I get nauseous when faced with him. Simple attraction I supposed.
What I would like to know is why he is so very important? What am I supposed to learn from him/this experience? Is it a passing attraction to the unavailable? And I secretly wonder if there is any hope for anything more.
Another hitching point is that I need to make an decision about the direction I will be taking in my current life path, and he would probably be helpful; however there is something that is stopping me from talking to him.
I am really trying to understand, but I am at a loss on where to look anymore. In my meditations, I feel as though I am blocked from the answers by a physical force, but how am I to move on if I cannot let go? If I am told NOT to let go?
Really muddled here....