Posts made by lamesared619

hi i'm new here but i can so relate to this cancer man issue..and yes they can be issues!! my cancer(i'm libra) and i had an open relationship for 2 yrs by his choice not mine. but i settled for what i could get ..long story short i never got from him what i wanted. he never let me in and i was madly in love.oh girl if you only knew... guess you do or we wouldnt be talking on this matter!! in the end after two yrs. he lies to me about leaving town over new years and i catch him with another woman. now mind you i had been dating oher guys but always told him when i asked him if he was seeing other women he never answered he was always secretive about every thing in his life so what made me think he would tell me that i dont know but anyway..when i get all upset about him and that woman he gonna tell me we're just friends well if that were the case then why did he lie about leaving town and all that so i got hurt very very badly cuz the man would tell me why .why did he do that to me??? i to this day still dont know. i went a whole year without talking to him not from lack of trying he wouldnt talk to me period. cant say i blame him tho i broke out the back windshield of his truck with a huge rock and super glued his truck key holes shut. but when my mom passed in dec. he called me and i started to see him again in feb.of this year. its as if nothing happened and yes were right where we left off..hmmmmm i again am not satisfied and its all i can do to not let him know my feelings this time. but its so hard cuz i never stopped loving him and in the year that he didnt talk to me i met another man who i love as well and i married him . yes i am now married to someone else but see my cancer on the downlow. my husband is in prison in another state. anyway just thought i would let you know that you are not alone with your cancer man issue and nothing really changes when THEY decide to come back because it was on his terms wasnt it?!! good luck to you and thank you for letting me reply........ lamesared....san diego