Hello ladies, and hello to all the newbies and welcome...

This thread is something else...

CB88-Take the time to read this entire thread...If you do, do you read something in common with every Virgo man?...It's always someone else fault...They never like to live up to the reality and accept that they are the problem in their whatever type relationship they have...They like to project whatever to you..The woman always leaves them for someone else, or they were hurt real bad...I wonder why???...Don't fall for the BS...It's never their fault...Blatant liars...I don't believe a d a m n word that they have to say...I flushed all the bs down the toilet...You keep what is good for you, and rid the toxic...They are very toxic men...If you stay there, he will find fault in you too...

VS-Love your analogy, step by step...I guess when you have been with a Virgo for awhile, you learn them, and all of their ways...You have this pact down to the science...You go girl...Two thumbs up to you...

CLAMoon-So sorry for the lost of your baby...Don't hate him...I believe in God...Please believe me when I tell you, all of those bastards that have done us wrong will definitely pay before they leave this earth...It's called reaping what you sow...If you sow good, good will come to you...If you sow bad, then bad will come to you...It's also known as Karma...My heart truly goes out to you...I also suffered a miscarriage once, so I really know how you feel...

Leave him to God...Don't wish him no ill will...God forbid, if anything were to happen to that man, and you wished something upon him, you would be guilty for the rest of your life...You cannot get into heaven with hatred in your heart...I know you are hurting right now, and grieving...I know in the long run, you will forgive him...That's the way we Cancer's are...Very forgiving creatures...God can do a much better job at "fixing" people...When you do it, they will retaliate...When he does it, no one can retaliate, they just have to accept it!!!...Please feel better soon...

Hello everyone...Glad to say I am doing well...

GF-I know you may feel really deep for your Gem, however she told you she is not over the damn Virgo man...Life is too short, to "wait" for someone...You have a young lady that is showing you genuine interest...Go for it...I'm sorry you are feeling down, but don't stay down too long...You have to pick yourself up by the boot straps, and get to stepping...If you continue to wait for your Gem, something tells me you are going to be waiting for awhile...That damn Virgo man is going to continue to come and go as long as she allows him too...She is going to have to stop this in and out, hot and cold thing he is doing...Until she makes up her mind to do so, this will be an on going thing...So babe, pick your arse up, and step to Ms. Sag, and have yourself a ball...Sag's are a lot of fun...Oh BTW, my son is a Libra...One thing I love about you Libra's is, you don't take any BS from anyone, and you will speak your mind...I understand where you are coming from...No one likes to see anyone hurting that you care for, or love...Best wishes to you and Ms. Sag...Please keep us posted...Damn, we can write a best seller book here...LMAO...Nite all...

Hello ladies...Hello to all the newbies...

Jen7, not darn Virgo's...I'll say it....Those damn Virgo men...lol...Have a wonderful, and safe week everyone....

Hello ladies...Hoping everyone had a wonderful holiday...

Update on VM...Found out one of his secrets, and he is livid with me...When I found out about it, I certainly let him know, that I knew...When I question about this subject, his answer was "no"...Does that not make him a liar???...I let him know that I detest secrets...He knew from something that had happened to me early on...I told him he lied, and he said that he didn't lie, he just didn't tell me...If I asked you question you about the subject, and you tell me no, then I find out that it is so, then you are a liar plain and simple...Why don't they like to admit that they are wrong???...What is it with them with secrets, and privacy???...What the h ell is there to hide???...Makes me feel I can't trust you...I don't like skeletons in closets...Like I told him, all secrets eventually comes to the surface, and all that's done in the dark eventually comes to the light...When secrets are revealed, they are usually devastating to some people...Air the d amn closet out...It stinks....What is your take on this ladies???....

@canceranne27 I surely understand that...Visit the forum that I have mentioned above...Now that might freak you out...The friendship/relationships all started out great, then they spiraled to hell and back...This may freak you out too...

Canceranne...He likes you...What virgo men tend to do is analyze everything...He is feeling you...He is going to do things on his terms...Meaning he is going to take his sweet time....They are also very shy people...Sometimes you may have to be the one to make contact...I had been talking to a Virgo man for 6 mos. before I met him...I had to initiate the meeting...I figure after 2-3 mos of talking, we would have a meet and greet...Not knowing how he felt about me, I asked this really stupid question...That was when I found out that he really wanted to meet me...What ever you do, do not play games...Do not like to play games...Although they will play games with you...They do this testing type thing...I guess to see if you are serious...Be careful what you tell him...He has a memory like an elephant...(as we do too)...He will use against you later on down the line...If you were to date him, it would probably take him years to get into a committed relationship if ever....They are very private, and secretive people...Do not ask him any personal question, as they will go unanswered...They go through these mood things too, like us...They seem to like a lot of women around them...They like to receive praise, but will give it back if it is sincere...They are extremely sensitive people as we are, so please pick and choose your words carefully, as he will shut down on you if were to say something out of line...You with your intuition will know when you have hurt his feelings...He will tell that he is not hurt, but he really is...Go to the forum that I mentioned above, and read the different threads...There are close to 400 pages to this forum...To get the maximum understanding of this creatures, start from the beginning....

Hi ladies...There is a forum here named the heart of a virgo man...Started in 2009, and is still going...I am very sure you will find what you are looking for...I bet you will very surprise as to all the ladies having the same problems with their Virgo men...They seem to have the same patttern...Lots of luck...

Neither can I VS...What the h e l l is going on?

MD...You know I my V did the same absolute thing...This is my theory...He told you that he was falling for you...Then he started to pull away...My take, they are no longer in control of their emotions, so they go to their man cave (pull away) to access what they are feeling...I had an uncle that was a V...He dated his gf for 7 yrs., before they got married...He treated her very well while dating because he truly loved her...I find that they show you how they love you more so than telling you (action speaks louder than words)...My uncle did the hot/cold, moody thing too, but my aunt learned to give him his space...A day or so he was himself again...Moral of the story is, yes it will be on their terms...Either you roll with it that way, or leave it alone...I forgot to mention that he was married twice...The second wife is the woman he cheated with on the first wife...However, before he died, he apologized to the first wife for his infidelity...That was in April 2003, he died in June 2003...