im a capricorn with mars in aries and venus in capricorn

My ex who is has Sun Scorpio, Mars Libra, and Venus in Scorpio. We broke up 5 years ago, because he was talking to other people while we were going out. He moved away and we sometimes hangout when he comes back home for the holidays. However, he is always bringing up old memories like remember when...or remember that time. He also asked me if i regretted going out with him. He hurt me a lot when we dated because I found out he was talking to another girl "about our problems" and eventually broke up with me and went out with her. Why does he bring back old memories? Anyone ever associated with this sign and dealt with their cheating tendency? Advices Please?

casper402032 i am so sorry to hear that, i hope all is well.

Here is an update with my cancer...I got really fed up with him not calling me so what did I do? instead of complaining i put my foot down and said enough was enough. I told him I want a man who can communicate with me not withdraw and not contact me. If you can't do this than I don't think you're the one for me. He said he loves me and will try harder...the past few days hes been calling me before he went to bed and random calls me to see what I was doing it caught me by surprise. = ) but lets see how long this will last i have my fingers crossed hoping its not just a temporary thing...

lol bit%ches

hey confusedbyacancer,

my cancer man broke up with me because he had been unemployed for a while and stressing about his life. He tried pushing me away by saying very rational things like, I need to worry about my life before I worry about having a girlfriend and maybe in the future we can be together. I was hurt but with friends encouraging me I lived my life and had a lot of fun with it. We saw each other time to time because of our mutual friends when he is around I would not pay much attention to him and carried on a conversation with his friends. Within a month he came running back saying how he realized I was the love of his life,how much he loves me, how he has dreams about me, and always ask around to see what and how i was doing. With all men not just cancer loves the chase...you should never let a man know he has a hold of you. I really recommend you ladies reading this book called Why Men Love Bitches.

Hi Universal!

I wanted to know if J is the one? my dob is 1/12/89 his is 7/3/86.

Thank You

my dob is 1/12/89 his is 7/3/86

hey enne can you tell me if this relationship that i am currently in is worth all the emotional roller coster ride and is he the one?

heres a good quote i ran into when I had trouble with loving myself enough to be happy. I read it over and over again

To “let go” means not to worry about the future, but look forward to what might happen

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To “let go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.

To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.

To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To “let go” is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.

To “let go” it not to intrude, worry or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.

To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To “let go” is to fear less, and love more.

my boyfriend and I sun signs are compatible (capricorn and cancer) but our moon signs are soooo incompatible (pisces and gemini) hence all the fighting in the relationship. Im an emotionally needy person and he is more rational no wonder i demand so much attention from him.