After reading the title of this post, and reading all the responses, I can only agree with the bulk of the answers given. Katie, you don't need a reading, you need to get OUT of that relationship, get some help for your low self-esteem, and take the time to grow up and find out what you really want in life. I have never let a man get rough with me; it was always "you hit me, you die", and I backed it up by taking martial arts, boxing, and just realizing that I am worth more than that sort of abuse. So, my dear, please run away from this guy as quickly as you can, go get some counseling to find out why you are letting this crap happen in the first place, and move on with your life. He is NOT worth the energy, both physically and emotionally, to keep on devoting any more time to him. Once a hitter/slapper, always a hitter/slapper, and that's that.

Me again, with another question: My relationship with my Leo male is stale and I'm wondering how to shake things up. He's a good guy, but unemployed, and has the mind of a 12 year old. Should I stay or should he go?

Hmmm, this sounds like a great idea, so here's my question: I'm planning on changing jobs, but I'm nervous about leaving a sure thing, albeit stressful and not enough hours, for something else. I'm a Halloween baby, 10/31/52, any advice, musical or otherwise, will be greatly appreciated!

Very interesting question...I'd have to have a combination of people to keep me interested:

1. Paul Atreides (aka Muad D'ib) from Frank Herbert's Dune stories...he's hyperaware, confiicted, trained in the ways of the Mentat, and open to his emotions;

2. Indiana Jones (we're going to have to arm-wrestle over this one!) for his brains and his courage, along with his loyalty and sense of humor;

3. T. S. Eliot, for his imagery in his poems; and last but not least...

4. Jesse James, because everyone needs a bad boy to make you appreciate the GOOD ones!

How about Jimi Hendrix as the Hierophant? Marilyn Manson as the Devil? Zakk Wylde of Black Label Society as Death? Wow, I'm really looking forward to your ideas for the Rocknrolla Tarot deck! Great stuff, tommyross!

Jimmy Page, definitely IS the Magician...although I see him in his black getup, with the sparkles on it, from the movie "The Song Remains The Same", d'you know which outfit I mean? Great ideas and concept, Tommyross, keep it up! Now I'm going to have to check out your first posting on this subject.

Peace!

Greetings! Thanks, Captain, for your time in doing this. My birthday is 10/31/1952, 3:05 am, New York City (Manhattan).