Hi..am a scorpio girl. Being a water sign, a LOT of my friends are cancerians..and.. to put it bluntly, I can relate well. There's a virgo guy who I hoped things could work out with, but you know what? Their intensity of emotion is not enough. Or at least not enough to communicate with an open heart. If they have love, where is it when you need it? Someone with true love would not let his loved one be in pain..he would rush forth and try to bring comfort. You need to be strong here. And intelligent. The longer you associate with him, the stronger will be the attachment..and more the pain. You should move on.
To break off from this virgo guy, I plan not to wish him on this New Years'. In the unlikely event that he wishes me first, I will not reply. With a small weight on my heart, but with a lot of faith in doing the right thing, I shall say-The sooner, the better.