Amandababa! I think we are seeing the same guy! LOL I know exactly what you mean about the push pull thing, so I have just given up and let it be now. We're both pretty busy anyway, so its cool by me. Sounds like my one - I have been saying for a while that I think he quite enjoys the drama of our fights (and they are by no means dramatic - I refuse to be a drama queen - closest I have got was walking out on him at the pub one night). So if I have a problem, I say my piece, we bite at each other and don't talk for a bit and then its all good.

A few weeks ago we had a doozy of a drunken argument (neither of us remembered much) but he rang me the next day and we had a talk, told him he took me for granted and had been selfish, etc etc. The thing I HAVE noticed is that he seems to think that by saying "Yeah I know I am" that kind of makes it OK in his head.

I also feel pretty strongly that he is going through a bit of depression, which I have been through and am still dealing with, and I know what would have helped me had ppl pointed it out, ie selfishness, rudeness, etc. You don't want to hear it, or realise that other people are noticing what you're doing, but it does at least make you think about what you're doing at some stage.

Thats interesting, blue116, my brother and sister are scorpio twins. My sister has been with her husband since they were 18 (they just turned 33) and is quite happy. They got married and had kids quite early.

My brother was a bit of a player as a teenager /young 20s but has also been in really full - on relationships as well - to the point of his ex threatening suicide when they split up. He is now in a long term relationship (about 8 years and 2 kids) with, oddly enough, a Virgo! Interesting because he and I clash and always have, and then ended up with a partner who is the same sign! I know they fight, and he picks fights with me still. I wonder if me and my guy are similar? I hate fighting but never pick a fight just for the hell of it, which is what I think my guy does, and I think sometimes he likes the drama.

Thoughts?

I've been casually seeing a friend for about 6 months. We've known each other for 5 years. I'm a Virgo, he's a cusp libra/scorpio. We started off talking a fair bit about stuff that had been going on. Not his break-up with his ex, who I am also friends with, but every so often he will bring up my past, which I am always honest about, but he knows it upsets me that people are talking about me 10 years after some of the stuff happened (I was a bit of a slut). Then I ask what he is up to on his day off and he acts as if I am a member of the Spanish Inquisition! Just wonderin, Geez!

I noticed that a few of you mentioned that they can be quite insensitive and all or nothing, that definitely rings true too. Truth is I am quite happy with it being casual, don't need to always be with him the whole time or spend all our free time together. I do love him, just don't feel the need to be all Bella and Edward about it.

He cracks it occasionally and takes my number out of his phone for whatever reason, but always comes back sooner or later.

Does THAT all ring true?

According to compatibilities we are a really good match...