Posts made by kmjessica

Iam a leo also and for the last 2 years have had alot of experience with a Cancer male. I have broken it off with him 3 times and ment it. I tell him dont contact me anymore. He gives me a month to a month and a half and he somehow finds a way to get in touch with me again. Then acts like nothing ever happened and continues from where we left off. But every time I grow farther away from him. A person , even in love, can only take so much. I asked him a week ago why that after I tell him to not contact me he does anyway.. He told me its because we have a history. Thats a true cancer for ya, They never let go of the past. My advice is no different from anyone elses here. You need to get away from him, if at least for a couple months and find who you are. It will get better.....Good luck.

VeritasVirgo

Im not going to give you any advice. But I will voice my opinion. I know were u are at, the same thing happened to me but it was not anywere close to the years you spent with him and we were not married. I gave him a second chance and so far things are good but I have to say that it took a couple of years before I got to were I am now with him. If it were me, I dont think I could live like you stated. No matter how much I loved him and also had children with him I would end it because in time I know I would at least have a happy life and another chance to meet someone who treated me better. Its getting there that is unbearable, but once there at least you have a chance to have a better life and one you deserve.

Hi all. Its been awhile sense I posted but have been keeping up with everyone and whats going on . The last few weekends I have been out of town, so when I get home I only have time to read your posts and then I am to tired to post.

J3d, My cancer cheated on me but I DO NOT believ all cancers are like that. It is not all one sun sign that cheats. Its individual men not just cancers.

Iam talking to my cancer again after I told him I was done with him. He would not listen. He called and acted like nothing happened. So of course we have been talking ever sense. I will never get back in a relationship with him but he is a good friend so that is were we will stay. I know it would never work out any other way. Im ok with that.

Hope everyone is doing well.

Mom I hope things will turn out the way you want. I hate to think of you as being unhappy. Your way to good of a person to be treated bad. He will realize he is an idiot and regret what he did. When he does you need to make him suffer (at least a little ). Im sure if penndy says he will contact you again, he will soon

Riverofgrass

I too was with a taurus for 9 years and he was a very jealous and verbally abusive , scary man. I would not take it anymore. Unfortunately he is somewhat still in my life because we had children together. I would never change the fact that I had kids( they are my life) but I wish I would have seen the signs sooner.

lusciousblush

Iam a Leo also and the last 2 men I have been with were both cancers. The recent one was/is my best friend. He did the same thing to me. We started dating and he slept with his old girlfriend. I broke it off right away. But he would not stay out of my life and we became friends again. He talks all the time about things that friends shouldnt talk about and he even said to me he thinks we should start dating again. Ugh, I think it is best to just stay friends. (They are so very hard to find) Let him know thats what you want and nothing more.

WOW Mom, I dont know what to say.

Im very proud of you for what you did and keeping your cool

Im very sad for you that it had to come to this

Im happy you are a strong women and are getting out there right away.

Ive felt the exact same emotions when I told J that I had had enough. We can only take so much and then its done and over.

But please dont go away, I can understand if you dont wanna come here but please keep in touch on Facebook.

MOM

Dont do anything in haste. Please think things through. I think sometimes we have all jumped the gun. And sometimes we regret it. Im not saying your going to ,just put alot of thought into it first.

I know how mad and hurt you are Ive been there. But just give it time and think about it first.

I had a very bad experience on new years eve and Im still regretting it. I read him all wrong. It was my falt and I cant take it back. Im just so surprised that he forgave me.

Hope it all goes well

lovin.

Im in the same boat as you. I text him to to wish him a happy fathers day and I got no response. But I also didnt expect one , so it didnt bother me either. But he called me Friday night asking me to come over so I thought what the heck Ill be nice and text him. I think this forum has got me to were Iam today. Nothing he does fazzes me any more. And Im not going to let any of it bother me again. LOL ( I know, good luck with that, right)

Jenna you are so funny.

And I have to agree with everyone else Ill go along with anything but im not crazy about the cult thing.

tralovesme

Im sorry but Im going to have to agree with toureengirl. Drop him like its hot.

I to went trough a simular thing with the cancer guy I know.

Recap: We were set up, He called and asked me to lunch, we talked like we knew eachother forever. Dated 5 weeks( best 5 weeks of my life). Found out he had S** with the girl he was seeing before me. I broke it off immediately. A few months later he started texting me again. ( He was seeing her again, after I broke it off) We stayed in contact every month or every other. He broke it off with her last summer. We gradually started hanging out again and talking alot more. But he has not changed. He is like all the rest of the cancer men that every women on hear is talking about. So I told him I didnt want to see or talk to him anymore. But he has called me twice sinse then.

Do yourself a favore, tell him to take a hike. That you are not someone who can be used like that. He will respect you and you will respect yourself for doing it.

Jenna your so funny. I was having the same problum with my pendulum, so I got a new one. It works alot better

CC love the name for our group.

I also agree, that is why we are all here. We do love them that is why we cant let go. That is also why they frustrate us so much. Do you think if we didnt love them we would get so frustrated, No we just wouldnt care.

Welcome Truepisces. Your bio sounds like mine. We are around the same age. I have both girls to around the same ages as yours. Except my cancer is 8 years younger. Did you say were you are from?

Good morning everyone else.

Daiseys

There is absolutly nothing wrong in wanting to say happy birthday. I say do.

welcome antbeetoo, Sorry your feeling the way you are. But that is why we are all here.

Mom

I think I need to get a new pendulum

Asked

are we a good match-no

does he have feelings for me-yes

is he in live with me -yes

does he know he is in love with me-yes

will thing escalate between us in july-yes

will we have a long turn realtionship-no

Will we get married-yes

So then I asked

do i have blue eyes-yes I dont

do i have 5 brothers-yes I dont

will i get married before i turn 43-yes Ya right thats in 2 month

Im going to get a new one and try it later.

Got lots to do today, I'll check back in later.

CC I hope the reason we havent heard from you is bc You and J have been together all weekend and you have not had one minute to think of this forum.

Mom It stalled at every question untill I asked it if I should quit asking questions then it finally said yes. I will try tomorrow and let u know what I get.

Oh and by the way I have 3 brothers also, So thats why you got a no on that one two. LOL

And i agree on the question about my daughters. Maybee I will refrase that tomorrow and ask it differently.

Mom

last post before I go

My daughters liked him at first

My older daughter admitted to having a crush on him before and while we were dating. Now she likes him ok

My youngest daughter says she doesnt like him because she thinks he lies and she used to be friends with his oldest daughter and they dont like eachother anymore. So I think that is another reason why she says she doesnt like him. But she was all for us dating at first, and likes him back then

THanks so much mom

Well I guess it depends on how you asked about the sister cuz I have 3

Did you say do I have a sister bc maybee it thought u ment one.

well I guess we will have to wait and see

As for the marrage part. He swore he would never ever marry again, I believe him.

Thanks again.

Till tomorrow

Oh and my names not Jessica, My real name is on my facebook.LOL

so hopefully that didnt hurt things. Im sure it knew who u were talking about.

Im going to go ask the same questions and see what I get

good night

Mom

His name is Jason

Im being thanked because I told her how she can find out what her rising sign is. And get a free chart.

Cant wait to see what hot mess says.

hiprincess

And your fifth house is in cancer.

5th house: tthis is the side of you thats reserved for play. Party and entertainment, interests,hobbies, romances, its what gives you joy.

So I can see you falling for a cancer man.

hiprincess

Im not the one that does numerology. I dont know anything about it . I have studied astrology for a few years and even took a class. But IM afraid I dont know enough to read anyones chart quite yet.

So you found out that you are a Pisces rising then?

hiprincess

forgot., I need to know where you were born?

hiprincess

Have you ever been to astro.com?

You can go to that sight put in your birth data and it will give you a chart for free. You will then be able to find out what rising sign you are. I will do it for u and get back to u.

Mom heres some other bios I found.

Lovinmylife, Northeast OH, 29, 3 kids, 7 yr marraige ended 3 yrs ago.

aries sun/ gem moon/ virgo rising

Stubborn narcissitic Cancer man w taurus moon since I was 12! In and out of my life since. Became involved in serious monogomous commited relationship with him last summer. Which he actually initiated and confessed to and I only had to wait 17 yrs of watching him date streams of wrong lovers that were insanely jealous of our friendship and would repeatedly sabotage our friendship to be rewarded with a few months of a beautiful loving, warm relationship that felt like the closest thing to a real family I have ever had. Then it tragically died a very painful drawn out death in the fall. Now we have very limited contact and we refuse to leave each others lives. I am Still madly in love as ever but done sitting around crying like a little girl and wasting my short time loving someone that doesnt express love back. talking to you fabulous women is making me feel all the less alone and like I am not the only women that is strangely attracted to these men that make us feel like they are the only one for us and we are crazy for not knowing where we stand when they repeatedly confuse us, drop out of our lives for days/wks/yrs and we are supposed to accept this even if it kills us. Then turn around and treat us like we are their soulmate that was created from the same flame that was split in half before we landed in this majical world of beautiful emotions that only they know how to offer us which is actually served on a silver platter. Whew maybe I should just stop there. Nice knowing all of you!

CancerCan: Madison county, Alabama. I am 45 years old, 5'5 weigh 120lbs. I work as a network intrusion analyst for the last 9 years. I watch for hackers, people to look at ****, chat, play games, or download unauthorized software to their work computers. I've been in the IT field since 1991. Ready to find another career path. I have an associates degree. I am the mother of a 24 year old son, raised him by myself since he was 2. His father was killed in a car accident 6 months after our divorce-that was 22 years ago. Never remarried came close 2 times. I'm a Virgo-don't know my moon etc., I owned my own house until April, my mom is getting alzheimer's so went back to her's. My son takes good care of her. My favorite 2 things to do for fun are, layout in the sun and drink beer in summer and in the fall watch every freakin' University of Alabama game they play-ROLL TIDE! I also love to flower garden too, read books and watch movies. I met my Cancer in Novermber of '08, how we met, was out at a local bar watching a football game, he came up to me and picked me up with his teeth by my beltloop!! He is a big man, and crazy! He wears kilts and is HOT in one. At first we were a casual friends with benefit kind of thing, we both saw others, then arounmd late January/ March we found ourselves spending more and more time together and I think that is when I realized I am in love with him. Have not really dated in 12 years. For the most part we have a very good thing, he is loyal, caring, babies me, sooths me when I am sad, he also makes me sad sometimes, sweet-etc.

j3d

I'm an Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Sag Rising, 37 year old, Single mom to a beautiful intelligent 5.5 year old Virgo boy. I live in Toronto, Ontario, Canada which is about 1.5 hours from Niagara Falls.

I was married, owned a home, owned a company and had most everything I could ask for minus love. My ex cheated on me with a so-called friend and ultimately left me for her. They are together and expecting a child soon which bothers me to no end. I've moved to a rental apartment with my son, lost most of my money paying off creditors my ex stuck me with, have a screwed up credit rating but i'm not unhappy. I am trying to rebuild my life. I'm very lost and young minded. Both my parents died relatively young and one of my sisters does not talk to me. I don't have much family at all but I do (fortunately) have a few close friends I can count on (at least for now). My son has a sensory integration dysfunction which makes life a bit more complicated at times but overall he is considered "normal" enough and his issues generally fall under the radar.

I'm an extroverted introvert and when in groups can be quite funny. I'm a dedicated person to what I believe in and will do anything for someone I love. I am looking to find inner happiness, that is my goal at this time. I'm an artist (acrylic to canvas) a musician- guitar and drums (djembe hand drummer) although I do own a bass guitar and a sweet keyboard i mostly just like to noodle around with any instrument. I'm a thrift shop shopper extraordinaire, I have my auctioneering license, went to college for 3 years (took business admin.), study numerology and sell reports to clients and pretty much decent at most things I do providing it holds my interest.

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