Im a pisces and my ex was an aquarius and sounds just like her..( i read your other posts)mmn im put off by them because they do what suits them with no consideration for your feelings .I htink you should move on snd find a nice water girl like scorpio or cancerian and a capricorn (not water but very cmpatible_

you seem sweet..................i believe in signs but i dont know the reason for themsometime.............im trying to forget an ex just pretend its not happeing and see what happnes. If somethings meant to be it willl be

xx

the issue isnt really an issue it used to be and i can see what you mean but it doesnt affect my life in any way I don't hate him, its just life and my friends dad's are all bad too see we have that in common! lol Take care thanks for advice xx

Cancerman276 Thank you SO much. You have made me feel A lot better and I totally agree with what you say. The answer to your question is, NO he did not do any of those things. He was a lustful seductive charmer who was elusive and thats what STUPIDLY drew me in, he manipulated me and I should have known better.

Your words have comforted me! And I'm sorry you have experienced heartbreak; Us water signs feel things so deeply I won't deny I have felt suicidal in the past about a previous relationship with a Virgo man. I empathize.

Cancergirlfromtheheart. I commend you tremendously for being so tolerant for so long and making the decision to live for yourself and your kids.I Hope you and your family are happy You must be one tough cookie, and my situation is trivial compared to yours but I can relate to knowing the behaviour of aqua male and I empathize with you. I guess we shouldn't take it personally its just in their nature.

Water girl thank you for your advice too!

And its true I do have a pattern of going with guys who turn around to me and say they don't want a relationship anymore which makes me feel its me but i cannot identify what it is they don't like about me, but I think i chose men that were hard to get and i don't know why.

I never had a great relationship with my father, He once told me he wished i was never born and that he meant it and this has stayed with me for a while.

I am going to focus on my career now in Reiki course and just hope I meet someone who wants someone like me and share something loving and mutual and respectful in the future and peace and love to you all too

Kez

I am fortunate I am a spiritual person who is lucky to have kind people give me advice, and I am grateful you took the time to read about my life. I know worse things have happened to people and I am in no way feeling sorry for myself I just wanted an unbiased perspective from someone who doesn't know me.

I guess these things MAY happen for a reason but we grow stronger as a result. May we be continue to be wiser

Please forgive my spelling, I'm English.

Pisces always want want they can't have. They yearn for the unattainable its so ridiculous but its true. They need to UNDERSTAND that if they continue to want things that they cant have or things that are bad for them, or people that show them no respect then they will only get hurt and they will push away REAL love and what is good for them,. They find it hard when things are going smoothly because deep down they are scared of rejection and hurt, for some its all they know.

My advice to you is be cruel to be kind,. Tell him he can go back to her and get hurt but you will NOT be there to pick up the pieces. And he will be left alone, always pushing away the real. Tell him that Ignoring the real, and longing for the indefinable will only lead to emptiness.

Good Luck and remember Pisces are sensitive souls, they want to be loved but they dont like OVER clingeyness

Hi there,

I have been seeing an Aquarian man for 7 months, he truly had the "gift of the gab" but today after months of thinking and almost dreaming (as Pisces do) that this was actually going somewhere it ended, It swirled into something convenient for him and i grew to love him, of course he has no feelings for me, i see that now. I made a decision this week to not respond if he were to want to meet, and no, nothing nice like cinema or a meal; that rarely happened. If ever. So much to my disappointment and also annoyance, he text me this today; "Hello you! Hope you are well?! Sorry i have not been in contact we can't see each other again as i'm seeing someone just thought u should know but we can remain friends and i'm here if you ever want a chat" x

So i sobbed into my pillow as this niggling feeling things were coming to an end truly set in as reality. I knew in my heart he was playing me for a fool, i just didn't want to believe it. He sent us a picture of us together just a week ago, such a romantic gorgeous photo calking me "baby". Only to send me this message just today. I feel such a fool. Am I right in not replying? I wish i could make him care for me, but I know I can't. I knew he was a ladie's man when i met him, people warned me of this but i wanted to see if i could be the one to change him, he said i was good for him. He said i brought out the best in him, once he wanted to even live together. He told me a few months into our relationship that an ex girl he was never actually WITH (probably just a girl he used like me) was in fact, 5 months pregnant. I said i would be there for him no matter what, Yet he doesn't want me, he wants be a player (this girl i THINK he is seeing now he met 4 days ago, she is 17) even though there is a very big possibility he could be the father to this unborn child in 2months time i didn't care as I loved him, and when you love someone you want them and want to help and be there for them no matter what.

I saw a psychic two weeks ago, who read tarot and said she saw success with our relationship.

This confuses me, I can only think that somewhere along the line something changed and this girl came into the equation. He is 22, same as me and I think maybe he is too immature to realize how much better his life would be with me? we did have a great bond and connection I used to daydream of us going on holidays together. I never made any demands on him, I never confessed my love to him, i played it cool I let him have his freedom, he knew i didn't want anyone else, so deep down he must have known i care deeply for him, but he has caused me so much pain as he misled me and fed me lies. Yes call me a gullible fool, but love is blind. I am happy to be single i'm a happy person but I don't know how i can trust anyone again, and give them all of myself.

Does anyone have any advice or anything to help me understand this situation? Would be very grateful please.....

Thanks

Kez

wow thankyou Watergirl and the Captain I really appreciate your kind words and advice, I shall most certainly take it on board captain!

and watergirl!

Hello Any advice please on how I can get a job other then the obvious ways....

I have had a long long string of bad luck, employment wise and no one can understand why there is NO logical reason, i cant help but feel like a failure, I have bills and debt like alot of people, im a happy person just want to have a job and i'm applying and going to interviews i don't want practical advice please just spiritual as this is getting me down i keep failing, and i am starting to wonder if this positive thinking really works? I pray to angels to help me ........

also i am a grateful person, i know there are many worse off then me i would never waste my life feeling sorry for myself just wondering what the problem is..

peace and love

kez

so do aquarius men want to knowhow their partner feels about them? Will telling them scare them off or not? thanks

Thankyou IndependentGirl that is very reassuring!

You have literally made me very happy with that statement! I hope Uranus gos somewhere else soon!