montecar - this has happened to me and my twin flame (or "twin soul" as the Egyptians put it) in a past Life. At least yours didn't burn you on the stake! The Lesson for you right now is: Patience. I suggest you seek out your Spirit Guide so you can hear that "voice" again, then ask for opportunities to explain things to your twin flame.
You see, in this Life, my twin soul/flame are the same gender too, but she doesn't like the idea of a homosexual relationship (we're both single). So that ball is in HER court, so to speak, and I'm just waiting for her to make the first move. You might have to do the same - whether it's for just this Life, or for a few to come.
Remember: Patience. I wish you good Luck in this endeavor of yours.