Happy birthday! I know already said it on FB but sending some love your way...even tho im a day late

Hiya,

So in Flow's email she mentioned she drifted back to the forums so I came on here to stalk hehehehe

HI EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I might pop in here and there, but I don't want to get sucked back into helping other people just yet, and I know if I read too much of the forum I WILL start to reply to people about Cancers lol We're such a hot topic how can i resist? hehe Anyways I think that part of my life is over for the time being, helping all of you really helped me learn a lot about myself. And right now I'm in the phase of my life where I'm trying to IMPLEMENT what I've learned.

I think, ,even though we're Cardinal signs and stereotyped as "mothers" and "nurturers", we are really hyper sensitive and defensive which in turn makes us self-centered and immature. So for the last year or so I've been trying to fix that.

I owe you all a big THANK YOU!!! All of you have imparted so much wisdom to me and I am very grateful

And here I am talking about myself again lol

You all have my emails and/or we're FB friends, I'm much better at responding to that instead of here, but I just wanted to say HIIIII!!!! to everyone, especially people I haven't talked to in a while or don't have any way to contact them

And HEY!!!! I read that Scorp comment about me and moon! LOL!!!!!

Don't do what we did lol Learn from our mistakes

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyone doing any good new year resolutions?

My goal is to gain 10 more pounds of muscle

GRRRR! BABY GRRRRR!!! lol!!

i want to look more like jamie bamber from battlestar galactica, such a hunk

i can do it too! i'm 5'8" and about 166lbs, I figure 175lbs would look pretty sexy hehe

Lua? any thoughts?

Anywho here is a pic of Jamie Bamber just to get you drooling

Cheers! Hope you gals have some good resolutions

Quick Update:

Lots of car troubles

Lots of events/parties to attend

Lots of angry people in malls while xmas shopping

Got a new phone! (Blackberry Torch!)

Exhausted

Been on a short fuse lately

The End. lol

Hope everyone is doing well

Have a wonderful holiday season everyone

Running at full speed lately

Looking forward to Jan 2nd when I can relax and take it easy for a while

T7 - I think you've got it figure out lol

Crazy busy talk soon

SV

Cusp

HI!!!!

Everyone loves when you use their name in conversation, it makes them feel special Taurus7 I've read books on interpersonal communication and using a person's name in conversation creates rapport quickly because it makes them seem important to you. hehe

So let me get this straight, when you're in a crappy mood, you want him to pull you out of it? Or do you prefer to be consoled? I'm guessing it's more the former?

Well let me ask you, do you hide your emotions? Like when you are out of whack, do you show it? Do you hide away?

If I had to guess...you aren't giving him the opportunity to pull you otu of a sour mood. Remember too that crabs need face time. So if you expect him to pull you out of a sour mood via text or email, that ain't happenin girl! lol But if you allow him to see you, I'm sure he'll act as you want him to

If you do want to mention anything to him, I would do it in passing; just say hey crab, when i'm in a bad mood, I look to you to snap me out of it. then change the subject lol he'll remember what you said, trust me.

he's showing you vulnerability right now, so you have to choose your words carefully. we do love to work for love so we don't mind working hard for you but it's all in your wording

Oh Taurus please be gentle with your crab. We are master empathizers, it's sweet that he wants to be in sync with you.

Give it more time, he will develop his own emotions over time, right now he's learning you.

Happy (early) Turkey Day to all of youuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!