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Thank you so much Captain for the long and insightful reply! It is so interesting to read, and as you say, a friendship would perhaps be a lot more satisfying. Although I have a crush on him now, it may fade away as I know him better. I tend to be a bit obsessed in the beginning, but it usually fades away eventually so that might happen as time goes on.

Update on the situation though; he called me yesterday and we talked on the phone before we went to sleep. I'm guessing that at least means he's somewhat comfortable and we can become closer whether as friends or whatever may come! It was really charming though. I have a close guy friend (Virgo) in our major, actually he's close with the Cancer too, and the Cancer asked me on the phone whether I meet this close guy friend a lot these days, and why we always sit together in class... He played the guitar for me as well. I hate how charming he is! It is hard not to like him!

Once again,thank you!

I absolutely agree and thanks for the comments! It's definitely not love yet, I am just interested in getting to know him and I think the fact that he is a bit mysterious makes me more "obsessed" about it.

Update though: I asked him why he didn't approach me in class. He answered that he just happened to not really "run into" me, and that we should find each other next time. He also acted like he hadn't seen me in class, which I don't know why he would do....Why would he lie? Perhaps he hadn't really looked?

His birthday is July 19th 1995, mine is May 17th 1994, sorry for not specifying that!

I have some more questions! Since this guy is quite popular, I'm guessing he can choose between a lot of girls in our major.. Would a Cancer be the type of guy who likes or notices someone a bit different or exotic? Someone who stands out?

I am really hoping to have a chance to have lunch with him or something again. Would it be wise to wait until he asks me, or make the first move?

Thanks a lot!! I'm thankful for all feedback This is my first time encountering a Cancer, so I have a lot of things I am curious about.

Hello everyone, it's been a long time since I posted anything here.

I think I just became to overwhelmed by emotions today and although I discussed this with my friends, I wanted to see if anyone with some insight and experience could help me out.

I am a student in a Korean university (I'm caucasian) and the first day of the semester I met a new boy in my major and we had lunch together with a group of friends. I instantly felt attracted to him, but intitially it was most likely just because of how handsome he is. He is very popular in our major, by the way.

After not talking since then, I spontaneously texted him one night at around 4 am. And we started talking. After saying goodnight, we didn't text until the day after when we had a class together. I saw him sleeping in class so I texted him "don't sleep in class" and we non-stop texted for a few days.

I expected him to talk to me in our class after that, but eventually he never approached or even looked at me - even after long, nice conversations by text. So I decided not to text him first anymore, thinking he probably found me creepy. Which would be completely fine!

But not long after, he texted me first, and we talked non-stop for about 5 days until we said goodnight yesterday. Today we had a class together again, and I was so sure he was going to talk to me (finally!!!) after he had flirted by text, calling me pretty and asking if I have a boyfriend (among other things). However, he didn't approach me once again - and made my mood very gloomy to say the least.. I had expected us to perhaps have a talk or even lunch after class. As I didn't want to scare my Crab away, I wanted to wait for him to approach me instead of walking up to him and his friends.

After the class, my mood was quite low and I told my friend about my problems - and she said she had caught him staring at me when I wasn't looking.

But why doesn't he talk to me, greet me or approach me? Could it be shyness? Or just the fact that he doesn't like me? Because if he doesn't like me, it would be best for me to move on.Are there any specific signs of a Cancer not liking me that I should be aware of? I just want to know how to read these confusing signs he's giving me. By text he's talkative, asks a lot of questions, teasing and we make up funny jokes together. We even have a lot of inside jokes already. We talk so well and naturally that it's beyond me why we wouldn't talk in real life! Trust me, I am not a shy person. I just thought it would be best to wait for him instead of being too agressive.

I haven't texted him since we said goodnight yesterday either, even though I want to. Because I want to keep the conversation going, and perhaps actually make a chance to talk in real life somehow..

Please, Any help, tips, or guidelines to understanding his behavior will be so helpful as I might be falling in love with this guy... or at least, I want to be more than just texting-buddies. Even becoming his friend would be awesome as he seems like a great person.

Thanks a lot in advance and sorry for rambling!

• confused Taurus girl

Thanks for your replies! I just got in contact with him yesterday and he sort of explained why he hasn't been replying me. It's because he felt like I was just dating him for his money, as I didn't pay for the dinner and didn't have enough coins for the bus home (which was nothing but an accident as I for some reason was unable to take out money from the ATM, which I also told him this at the time). I explained to him that I'm not that type of girl and that I would like to buy him a dinner to make it up to him, but he hasn't replied since that as it was quite late. T

Today though I read that most Leo's would enjoy paying for their date. It seems he might be another kind of Leo, one of the Leo's I've heard of who have some different traits than what would be usual. Or perhaps he's just worried I have some sort of attitude problem...

I also told him that I still think he's great and that he can contact me again whenever he feels like it, and I hope that he'll forgive me as I can totally understand why he feels what he does..

I just can't stop thinking about this guy.. He's perfect in every way, and more than anything I just want us to meet again and talk it through!

I'm a Taurus girl (17th of May) who happened to fall in love with a Leo (11th of Aug).. At first we just chatted online because he didn't have time to meet up because of studies, but recently we had our first date and now I just can't stop thinking about him!! He's been quite straight forward about his feelings for me, and always kept asking me to tell my feelings for him. In the beginning I wouldn't because I felt too shy, and he got really mad. That was before we had even met properly, which is why I couldn't really say what I felt about him. But now, after we met, I'm sure about my feelings and I want to let him know but it seems like he's ignoring me. I tried chatting with him on my phone, and I could see he was online chatting with others, but he wouldn't reply me.. What does that mean? If it's true that he's ignoring me, does that mean he dislikes me after our date? I just want some advice on how to understand him.. On our date he asked me to hold around his arm and we took pictures together and he was being really sweet. He also asked me a lot of questions about me, and I felt like he was really interested. Please, can anyone share their opinions or experiences? And I don't know if Leo's would usually ignore the person they're dating like that, as this is my first time dating one. Tell me what you think please!