I am a scorpio woman in my early 50's. I've never had the fortune to find my perfect companion. I think because as a scorpio I express my feelings through intimacy. I put my heart, body and soul into it. I lack in verbal communication with people. I grew up out in the country and didn't have any friends to play with, so I learned to entertain myself, which probably just doubled the ways we get into our heads and think about things. Does that make sense? Most people depend on verbal communication to develop relationships. Not that I can't carry on a conversation, it's just usually short and sweet. I grown beyond the jealous and possessiveness of being a scorpio, but don't purposefully cross me, I will let you know about it. The closest I've come to being in a great relationship is with a Taurus, holly buckets it gets steamy. He is the only person I totally respect and don't want to control. The problem is he is a common sense thinker and I am an emotional thinker. But most of the time he tries to understand me though. My intuition sometimes almost pushes him away. A few months ago I had this overwhelming feeling that something was wrong. I tried to contact him several times that day asking him if everything was all right. He has always kind of held me out at an arms length, so he didn't tell me he hurt his knee and was having surgery. Do you think I freaked him somewhat ? He didn't tell me until weeks later about it. Because we live in different towns and our work schedules, we only get together every few of months. Being intuitive I also can figure people out very quickly. Scorpios are very capable of loving another, as long as you enjoy intimacy and understand we do need some alone time. We really are giving and care about the people we love, just don't expect us to wait on you hand and foot. You should be some what independent if you are gonna love a Scorpio.