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Hi Karolin,
The sense of relief you have indicates that this is indeed what you needed to do. Draw back, get a perspective of the whole situation. Do you recognize where your fear came from?
Time is the healer of these things, as is loving communication.
The gentleman in question may be helped if he is made to understand that he is not unworthy- it was just neccessary for you to get to a place where you could feel confident of the direction your life was taking. Express your feelings of his character as you have done so here; it will help.
Your comment on giving the children a calm and healthy transition is very reassuring. Thank you for expressing that.
It is important that you take time to develop a life plan for you and your children before you become involved again. It is so very easy to become involved with another human being, but so very hard to extract ones self, as you have learned from this experience.
Know what you want in a life mate, and what you don't want.
Be careful about who you choose and allow into you and your childrens space.
Allow enough time to pass for you to truly know these issues.
May your life become enriched, and may you know God is there for you, angels are in waiting to assist you.
Love and peace be with you Karolin
Pl