Hey Everybody !!!!! What's up !!!! Im still here !!! Nothing nuch has changed on my end. Cancer Guy still not speaking to me . His mom still calls everyday etc.... lol Ill definately be back tomm to give you guys a full update & to catch up .
Smooches !!!!!
Im always reading about how Cancers guys adore their Moms. The one im dealing with seems to have some underlying hatred for his. Now don't get me wrong he has the up most respect for her BUT he's always complaining about how his Mom does everything for everybody else. She's very well educated and is always willing to lend a helping hand . He is also well educated and is very independent. The only thing about him is that he gives off that vibe of " I don't need anybody " when really deep down inside he does. Anybody else experience this ?
Im a Scorpio female .This Cancer Man did something that was very hurtful ! I called him out on it and now he's treating me like I had no right to confront him about it ! Now he's doing the whole Ignoring/ Disappearing act etc... Is he mad because I caught him in a lie ? Is he embarrassed ? How long does it takes for them to bounce back? I have let the whole situation go on my end( He would know if he would answer the phone )
Anybody out there ever experience this type of behavior with a Cancer Man ? What should I do next ?
Our Birthdays are
Me: 10/24/80
Him:06/30/82
@ Wildplaces - Thank you for your honest advice. For the last month i've been thinkong about what I did. I know I could have handle it differently . I just wish he would give me a chance to explain . I called him last night ( no answer ) I told him to give me a call when he got a chance. I can't write him a letter I don't know where to send it. They only way I have to get to him is the phone. 
@doublescorpio - WOW !! Reading your story was like Deja Vu !! The only problem with mine is that we are childhood friends . Our famiies are very close. The holidays are coming up and I don't want any tention between us . What should I do ?
Oh I left out that before this incident I was in his town . We hung out , He wanted to have sex . I said no. I called trying to explain why I said no. ( No answer )
Im gonna give you a little background about us. We are childhood friends . I've known him since age 8 . This is what happened on Sept 19 .
Hey Peeps. Well as yall know the game was this weekend. I arrived at the game and me and my girlfriend started looking for him. we were prepared we even had binoculars ! I thought that he would be on the field , But I did not see him . Then when the game was over and everyone was leaving that's when I found him . We were sitting in the same section but he was in the 1st row and I was in the 38th row , He started walking up the steps , My girlfriend was the lookout , He does not know her . She had on her sunglasses , so she had a clear view of him . and he could not tell that she was staring at him . I had my back turned to him . He did not reconize me at all . We walked out of the alise and by that time he was DIRECTLY BEHIND ME !!! I started talking to my friend . He realized it was me by my voice . I was waiting to see if he was atleast going to speak . When he didnt I turned around only to see him cutting through another alise walking real fast ... ( Remember he does not know I saw him do this ) My girlfriend said She know he saw me because he looked right at the both of us , ( Remember my back was turned to him ) So he thinks I never saw him. My girlfriend said " Why didnt you stop him " I really flored . I could not believe he would do something like that. We continued to exit the stadium , while we were walking we ran into some of the football players who told us that it was a after party downtown ( Oh they did win the game ) we exchanged numbers . After we left the stadium I was still upset . I wanted to call , but I know he wouldnt answer . My girlfriend said you know all the football players are gonna be at the after party so well catch him there . I told her that I didn't think he would come because he's not a club person . We go to the party and it was cool . My mind was still on him though. Right when we were getting ready to leave the players started showing up . We hung out with the one who told us about the party . Next thing I know His Brother/roomate walks in . Of course no sign of him though . We left , went back to the hotel . I could not sleep , I could not believe he would do that . OK ignoring phone calls/ text mess is one thing , but to just act like you never saw me ! That really hurt !!! The next day comes and were on the road going home . When I got home that's when I broke down . I decided enough is enough ! I was gonna just let the whole thing go and totally just stop speaking to him / cut all communication but I had to let him know that I saw what he did and it really hurt my feelings. I called him ( Of course no answer ) I could not leave a voice message because his mail box was full . so I sent him this Text - I was calling to let you know that I saw you at the game and I saw you dip out real quick.. Now I would have called your **** out at the stadium but it was your school/workplace, it was not the right time and I would never do anything to embarrass/jepordize your reputation at the school. Now if I have done anything to upset/ offend you I apologize, but what you did at the stadium was **** up. I thought we were better than that. Friends don't do each other like that . I would never carry you like you carried me. Now let me know what's going on . Let me know if I need to fallback . If I don't receive a responce it will really let me know what to do because actions do speak louder than word and that is what you displayed yesterday "
Sorry the story is so long
Im a Scorpio female .This Cancer Man did something that was very hurtful ! I called him out on it and now he's treating me like I had no right to confront him about it ! Now he's doing the whole Ignoring/ Disappearing act etc... Is he mad because I caught him in a lie ? Is he embarrassed ? How long does it takes for them to bounce back? I have let the whole situation go on my end( He would know if he would answer the phone )
Anybody out there ever experience this type of behavior with a Cancer Man ? What should I do next ?
Our Birthdays are
Me: 10/24/80
Him:06/30/82
Im a Scorpio female .This Cancer Man did something that was very hurtful ! I called him out on it and now he's treating me like I had no right to confront him about it ! Now he's doing the whole Ignoring/ Disappearing act etc... Is he mad because I caught him in a lie ? Is he embarrassed ? How long does it takes for them to bounce back? I have let the whole situation go on my end( He would know if he would answer the phone )
Anybody out there ever experience this type of behavior with a Cancer Man ?