Ok thank you very much I hurt so bad because I feel like their mother and my husband Jeff feels like daddy especially to the youngest boy. My precious grandsons names are Cadin Noel Gall 6 yrs. his b-day is 12/24/2003 he was born in south Bend In at memorial hospital and Jeffery Alan Gall 3 yrs 10/05/2006 he was born at Goshen general hospital Goshen In. Also cps visited us but only to check on Jeffery because he was here. They called and asked me where cadin went to school and what time he got out? They checked my fridge and cupboards the mother is Rhiannon Mayou and she was born on 10/15/1982 and she kept Cadin home from school that day so they talked to him there but Cadin was already manupulated in to what to say like he doesn't remember etc... My son their father 's name is Paul Gall and he is 32 yrs and.was born on 04/15/1977. She the mother is not doing things like a mother should and now because she all of a sudden is so concerned about visits with the father that she now wants us to sign a binding contract that states that when we visit the grandchildren it can't be when it is my sons visits. But yet her mom can come and stay the whole time she has the kids and take care of them while she does what she has always done be mommy when she feels like it.
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RE: Grandsons urgent!!
Can anyone give me a reading on the future of my grandsons Cadin 6 and jeffery 3? will They be with me alot? cps was called on the mother and I have had them most of the time for over 3 yrs. Now the mother and the father(my son) have bad attitudes and seem to hate each other to the point they hurt the boy's. My heart is breaking just this year alone they have been here at my home for 290 days. will they still be able to see me often? parents are split up but it is really bad for them and my husband and I please help me!!! kandi
Can anyone give me a reading about my grandsons?
I have 2 grandsons Cadin 5yrs and Jeffery 3yrs. I have had them for the last 2 1/2 yrs minus about 6 mths possibly. I know for sure this year we have had them for almost 300 days. My son is the father and he lives 60 miles away and pays his support. He can't always get here to take his visits because of finances. Their mother lives 15 miles away recieves support 647.00 in Food stamps plus unemployment. for a while she would give us like 125.00 to 150.00 a mth that lasted maybe 7 mths out of the whole time. One mth she gave us 250.00 and on occasion maybe 5 times she has given us 20.00 or so. For the last 5 mths she was not recieving food stamps but was still getting total with support and unemployment 515.00 weekly. She has had several men live with her in the last 3 yrs. Even had another son with him he resides with his grandparents also. The boyfriend she has now who lives in her home has been physically abusive to her. It has happened twice now in front of the 5 yr old. Hewas choking her both times and the first time he was up all night with them fighting etc.. and had to go to school the next day. He just started kindergarten. The second time he was choking her and took her in the bedroom and locked Cadin out and Cadin was kicking the door and screaming etc... let my mommy out very traumatic. I went down the next day because I found out he was back already again, when I got there Cadin was sleeping and I saw the marks on her neck and I cried and she was making excuses for him blah blah blah. Anyway what has happened is that was on Oct 8 and 2 weeks ago my grandson told his daddy and well daddy called cps over that and that we have them all the time yet she barely helps at all financially. My husband has been laid off and his unemployment is the max and all we get is 376.00 a week I bought all the school clothes pictures gas from here to school and back the days he was here and also have always bought jefferys diapers and pull ups. So my son told them everything. All the while her boyfriend works also and gets paid under the table and now she figured out who called the day after and called me and reamed me out terribly and has kept the kids away from me now and was mad that jeffery was crying for me all the time. Someone please help I know she is now trying to hurt me and my son but I did not turn her in we just kept doing it for our grandkids. I don't think but am not sure that cps is going to do anything at all. She has never had the boys for more than 8 days by herself without her mom or me being there. they would go to her house for 2 or 3 days and her mom would stay and take care of them. I am hurting so deeply now I miss them so much and I am afraid of not being able to be with them. Can anyone see if they will be with us or what will happen here? Thank you