Luazinha, "Last year I didn't hear from my cancer guy for nearly a month and nothing was even wrong" how do you handle this? do you trust that there is nothing else going on? I have read on so many of these threats about cancer men cheating and lying, which I find hard to believe about my cancer men but after all this the past few weeks I'm having trouble trusting anything.

also, how do you manage when they need space? no contact at all? can i send him a message to let him know im thinking about him from time to time or does that make it worse?

**Thats typical, and no I would NOT trust that. Does he text ALOT? Cancers are prone to cheating, they love to flirt, and yes they DO lie. Everyone needs space but there is a thing called too much space especially when they do not contact you AT ALL for an extended period of time. If youre with this guy and he hasnt contacted you in lets say a week then you need to man up and tell him that this is completely unacceptable.

I've been playing the cancer man game for ummm lets see about 5 years, hell I dont keep track anymore. If a cancer man truly loves you then he will ALWAYS come back, it may be weeks or months but he'll come crawling back.

If you keep trying to contact him, text, email, whatever etc, the more unlikely youll get the response you want.

If you play it cool, ignore him, and act like you dont really give a shit the better chances that he will blow up your phone with text messages and the like.

Push him away and he'll beg for more.

Put him on a pedestal and he'll push YOU away.

Theres really no clear cut answer with these guys. If I could find one I would gladly give it to you. The best thing to do is go about living your own life and DO NOT let your mind become so enveloped and obsessed with him. They want what they cannot have and once they get it they lose interest.

He has a girlfriend. You dont kiss other peoples bf's. Im not trying to be mean but you should really back off if he is really serious about his gf.

Hey forum, I'm a Leo with Sagittarius rising, my moon is in Sagittarius also. Im a female, 21 years old. I finally found out my correct birth time and finally got all of this accurate lol. Anyone else a Leo/sag/sag? Since I have sooo much sag in me seems like I should act more like one. I have leo traits as well as sag traits, I mean i LOVE my freedom and that would be a sag trait. But I havent read much about sagi's so I dont know everything.

My dad and my brother are both sagittarius and man are they LOUD, lol. Me, well im pretty quiet and kinda keep to myself. While they are the opposite. Okay I know Im rambling. Really I was just wondering what sign would most complement me. I seem to be really drawn to cancers, whether as friends or bf's. I dont know, I just LOVE cancers. You rock cancers!!! I like scorpios too. But really I just cant seem to find the right guy. I was with a pisces for 8 months and I broke up with him not too long ago and I must say I will never date another. Ive been hanging out with my ex bf, a cancer, I would love to be him, hell I would love to marry him but we all know about cancers bad qualities that we dont like. Im not going to get my hopes up with him just so he can disappear again.

Im going to ramble on again about my ex pisces bf. And I have a question, do the men ALL cheat?? I think he may have cheated on me(emotionally) or watever you wanna call it, on the internet. He was on it 24/7 and I had suspicions. I think Im just a psycho magnet when it comes to guys. I was with him for about 8 months, i dont know how it lasted that long but im finally free of him, oh it makes me so happy!!

He was manipulative, controlling, posessive, jealous. He would not work, he lived with me for 8 months and I totally supported that jackass. I felt used, taken advantage of, neglected, unappreciated. I told him my feelings and it was like he totally dismissed it all and went back into la la land. OH and he would check EVERYTHING, my text messages, everything on my phone, everything I did on the internet. After a while I just completely stopped getting on the computer because he would hover and watch everything i did on it! I felt like a prisoner in my own home.

And he says he loves me more than anything and would do anything in the world for me!? HA! That is really hard to believe. I tried and tried and tried with this guy, He said he was going to do this and that but he never did what he said he would. Pisces guys act all innocent helpless but really they are hard and selfish. I have soo much anger toward him. Im probably going to have to change my phone number because this dude is nuts!

I finally got rid of my loser pisces bf. Cant say I would ever date another. EMPTY PROMISES, LAZY, WONT WORK. And yes he promised me heaven on earth, pfffft. He still wont leave me alone, always trying to get me back but I know things would never change because hes so stupid, I think he believes he can get through life with his good looks. He dont look that damn good! Im gonna have to cut him out of my life for good but its for the best.

Im a Leo female and Im a little on the shy side. It takes me a while to warm up to people. I have to get used to you before Ill actually talk to you and be comfortable around you. And yes I have very high standards when it comes to men, I think that goes for pretty much every leo gal. Like Oldernwiser said, yep we love and want a MAN, wont settle for less. I am soooo picky when it comes to guys. Ive only known one guy who is everything I could ever ask for and want. We've been off and on since I was 16, Im 21 now. He is a cancer, Im patient with him and Ill wait for him until I know theres nothing left to wait for. When we Leos fall in love, we love you with all our heart and every last piece of our soul and if we lose you, we lose ourselves.

Hey another leo here! Rawrrrr! Leo~sun, Scorpio rising, Moon in Sagittarius. I guess you could say I was born on a cusp. I was born Aug 22 at 1:00PM. I guess I would be considered a typical leo girl. I always have to be in control, I have wayyy too much pride and yeah my ego is pretty big lol. Everywhere I go I get compliments on my hair, its really long and is mane-like.

Im a very generous person, sometimes I think Im too generous. I love buying people stuff and Ill always be the one to pick up the tab at a restaurant. Im not a loud person, Im pretty quiet and a little shy. I think my heart might be a little too big, Ill usually do whatever I can to help anyone out and I get taken advantage of alot because of it.

Do any other leo's find it really hard to let go of someone? No matter what, I just cant let go of my ex bf. He was my first true love, my best friend, my whole world, my everything. We started dating when I was 16 and have been on and off for years, Im 21 now. But hes a cancer and we all know how that goes. Maybe its just me, I mean we were sooo in love and I dont know if I could ever feel that way again.

Okay enough rambling lol, Im tired so im gonna end this one. Im sure ill think of some more stuff later.

Thanks alot for your reply! Yeah I know he really cares about me but like you said, I dont think were right for each other. I dread going places with him because hes soooo boring and he gets really defensive and offended if I want to go out by myself or with my friends.

Hes a total drama queen, whines alot, manipulative....

He was in a relationship with a girl for 7 years and they had a kid together and were engaged and she cheated on him. He never gets to see his kid and I know that makes him depressed but he wont take action to do anything about it.

I know that hes insecure because he was cheated on and thats understandable but its not my fault what happened to him.

He acts like hes always the victim and acts like he doesnt care about anything and he wont get a job, he has no car, no nothing. I totally support him and Im fed up.

Ive tried and tried and tried, Im so tired of trying to make it work.

I did breakup with him a couple weeks ago, he moved back in with his mom and dad but he always puts me on a guilt trip so we got back together.

I dont know what to do at this point. He always says hes gonna do this and that but im sick and tired of empty promises. Seems hopeless=/