I say adious to Cancer and Hello, to Gemini! My personality has undergone a complete and radical shift in the past 6 months anyways. I am ready for something new as Cancer seemed to be swept away from me since this past July. One of my favorite quotes is "We never change as we grow older we only become more clearly ourselves." Well, goodness have I experienced this and, with much research on the science and anatomy of the brain my Cancer / emotional traits were more prevalent only during the time before my frontal cortext closed. I am gun-ho about, the change and, Never say Never attitude. The only thing I care to know is where I could find a site with a personality profile (3 signs) which has taken the possibility of such into effect. Very intrigued to dive deeper and see if my moon sign, and rising sun sign has changed also. Ohhhh.... How I love google research. Many people with their Sun sign changing shouldn't necessarily be put off as the two others show much about one's personality also. It could be a wonderful change and actually be an aide in many person's lives if we were to think of it positively. With information popping up to both support such OLD/ new information and, disregard such I think we should all look a bit deeper. Why Not? And, of anyone knows of any site modifying their personality / cosmic profiles to this change I would appreciate the address. I find it fascinating. You just never truly know. Good day to all!

Thank you all... I am very much looking forward to trying new things and taking your advice and hopefully finding the best way for me. I know this is going to be a process but, am excited to finally be able to become still and fully relax.

I would very much appreciate it if someone could do a reading for me. It has been a very long past 6 years and so much has occurred. Even though the past 6 years has been an emotional rollercoaster with ups and downs and me loosing myself I know I needed to go through it all to become the person I am at this moment. I have seen much growth in myself but there are things that worry me. I suppose it all has to do with an ex who I loved for 6 years (2 ½ yr long distance) not a healthy relationship and both of our faults. Once this relationship ended in 2006 even till a few months ago my heart belonged strictly to him. I have been in many relationships since most not lasting more than a few weeks to a few months and I know my heart lying elsewhere was the issue. However, now I finally have my heart back. I suppose him coming to see me and realizing things gave me the courage I needed to finally let him go and be free of him. He is still haunting my dreams as well as other EXs, and other men I have not been with. I know enough about myself to know this most likely has to do with my subconscious fears playing out as to not affect my waking life.

I would again greatly appreciate a reading because since I saw my EX last and was able to be free of him I have been feeling almost emotionless; unless I watch a sappy movie (it’s the only emotion I get out of myself lately). I’m in neutral mode, just is, limbo land, whichever. This worries me. I know I have the capability of loving someone and I feel that I have learned so much about the person I am, but I am lonely. My heart is finally ready to let someone else in. What do you see when it comes to me and love?

Thank you so much. After being on a rollercoaster for 6 years and then coming into this sate of neutral I am just not used to this at all. I know neutral is better than the negative side but, I so crave the positive side and the lack of emotions.

Peace and Joy,

Jenn

Piscesman- I have seen a few of your posts and yet don't know all the circumstances. Cancer and Pisces are suppose to be good / ideal matches however as a Cancer myself I found a great deal of important information on knowing my rising and moon signs as my personality happens to be all over the place. i can only tell you from what I know about myself and what I am reading above sounds more than just Cancerian qualities. Normally, a Cancer woman wouldn't be kicking someone they love out it's more emotional to us. Our moods are often up and down and quite frequently however, I am wondering if she hasn't yet found herself. I am wondering because I remember letting my emptions get the better of me but, with time experience and soul searching I have learned to just ask for the time I need. I find this process a much more mature way to handle the moon and the tides which we are ruled by. I often would say or do things I regretted teaching me I needed to take a step back and keep my mouth shut and just do me for a few hours until I coudl process everything properly. I personally would write which gave me an outlet. Does your Cancerian woman have an outlet of such for herself? It may help her to find one if she has not yet done so. When we do love it's with our whole hearts and doing such is not easy. Nor, is it easy to be a Cancer and I find it vital to take the time when the emotions get high to just be and let the fire stir. They're often fires and we have a difficult time supressing such. One thing I found with water signs is that any kind of water helps to soothe whether it be a bath / shower / pool / ocean / lake. It just lets the heated moments dissapaite some before meeting someone head on. I don't believe anyone is crazy, I do believe we all have crazy tendencies. I found it a very true statement that it takes women twice as long to get over a man we loved esp Cancers. Ex dated for 2 years.... they need 4 years to truly get over that person. I have had a very similar experience lately and my heart belonged to him for 6 years (not by choice ) but, it did. I tried everything. Time was not on my side but after 6 years from 18 - 24 I have my heart back and it's mine. Funny, thing is when time has come full circle Cancerian woman are able to let go no Positive or Negative thoughts it's just neutral and just is.

I can not tell you what you should do as that answer lies in your heart and yours alone. But, in my experience being a Cancer I have to say my best advice is to let her go. Break ups no matter how hard are meant to happen because, people need to grow and learn to love bigger than before. It helps us all become the people we are meant to be. It's never easy esp for a Cancer woman and the likely hood if you leave her be is she won't leave you be. This is why it is important that you follow your own heart. It's not easy and can be like daggers to a Cancer woman but, when she does move on it is in the best possible way with nothing but forgiveness.

And lastly, if the love wasn't the same as before it may be because you have grown as she has not. You may be seeing a more immature love that you initially had and now you realize what you want is something greater and bigger. If this be the case do not settle for something you once had. Have faith that what you need is out there and continue on with your life. We often remember what we once had with someone as an amazing love but people do not progress at the same levels and when those people get together again if one settles they can be left feeling unsatisfed which will only be worse in the ens.

Best of luck and wishes to you!

I always forget this tid bit of information and I am unsure as to how much is needed as in Astrology. DOB June 27th 1986, 10:29pm, Tampa Florida. All information provided in case it's needed as Sun, Moon, and Rising signs.

TIA

I was hoping that someone may be able to give me a reading. I have had a very interestng and unconventional past 6 years which I believe has come full circle. There are no more ill wished or concieved thoughts from me to him or good either. I am in a neutral state with no emotions. As this relationship was so infused with strong emotions both good and bad for 6 years I became very used to having such in my life. As these feelings are no longer in me I will admit I am a bit lost. It's awkward to have believed you loved and became a certain person due to situational factors and when I lost it I knew I now had my freedom and my heart back after 6 very long years but I am not sure where in leaves me. Or, if the Universe "God" whichever anyone may call in has a better / greater love out there for me. I have been on pins and needles as I believe I have always been searching and yet with the freedom I now have with my own heart being 100% mine again and not belonging to someone else I am left in a neutral state of knowing who I am but wondering what happens next.

Thank you to those who may be able to help me. I wish you all the best of days!

Goodness gracious you hit the head of the nail directly. I am hoping that managerial ability could mean with children as I am an aspiring high school teacher (currently a nanny), and the corporate world just frustrates me. I also am crossing fingers that inspiring could be the kids I look to teach one day. I am working on many different things in life with certain people in my family with a multitude of different tools such as core health which has helped me in energy releasings in the past. Thank you again.

Captain,

Firstly, thank you for the astrology reply "ideal partners". Reading through so many things I was drawn to this thread and was hoping you could give me an idea of the vibes I may be giving to the universe and others also. (Too much fun!)

Best Regards,

I have one of the most basic questions or at least to me it is. I have great difficulty in becoming still (stilling the mind and my senses). I have tried many different techniques which have not worked well with the jibber jabber that continously runs through my brain. If you all could help? It would be greatly appreciated. Any advice anything that comes to mind in techniques that may be used; stilling of the mind, meditation techniques, relaxation anything.

Lately, over the past few months I have found that I don't know how to truly relax (maybe this is my problem). I usually over complicate everything.

Thank you all so very much!

Missing information.... June 27, 1986