To speak truthfully....we are good sex partners..just keeping it real...smile but I have kids so at one time are another you have to grow up and be parents....my kids are older now which has enabled me to breath and look at my life.....I've discovered my love for poetry again....I go to poetry set twice a week and I 'm trying to find myself again...sometimes you can get lost with taking care of everyone except yourself....I decided that i had to stop and think about me......I've stop doing things to please everyone and not please me....even the little things.....I would buy food that everyone liked even if I wanted something else...it may seem little but you learn to tell yourself that your not important....it a mental conditioning....I hang out with my friends more.... I'm not saying that it will be easy but you seem farther alone than me....we've talk about devorce but it was just a conversation....I just can't think of being by myself...I've always had a boyfriend/husband....but I plan on letting it go....I just trying to get our bills together because he is my friend.....we just can't live together.....sometimes I wonder if I should wait until the kids get bigger....