Posts made by journey12

I met someone the sameway....and he promised the samethings....some people are sad...but life most go on...it's to short to be unhappy....Peace

I do think if he has not commited than you should go out on other dates...not to sleep with anyone but to keep your options open....

I like that

Blessing to you

how do you do it....they answer question first

I think becuase of the love that we possess can be to much.....poeple can't really handle it.....they begin to take it for granted.....in the future when you fall in love again and you will...it's apart of you makeup....remember that half of the love that you have in your heart belongs to you...and god....share the other half with others....friends and family.....continue to spend time s with friends and family spend time away from you male friend....we love to hard....you must acknowledge that first.....find things that you love doing and if it not harmfuls to your mind and body do it.....thaats what I'm doing ive been married for 25 year and he has been on the side lines for 15 years.....I surprise he didnt ask to leave but life with me was easy.....but now i'm mad becuase i feel used ...he is a cancer.....but i've taken control which you have the ability to do.......show him that you can move on.....that usually scares them...even when theyre with someone else...dont give him the satisfaction of knowing that you can't live without him so you think and heart is telling you....tell you heart to be still and find love else where....write down the reason why you love yourself....

make it till you fake it.....sister in love......

i agree but I've started writing poetry...and I love that about myself...I have been working on not caring so much what people think of me....that hinders my growth....also i'm working on me....understanding what truly makes me happy...we are the kind of people that will be happy if the people around us are happy....alone time to think allows for self to shine through....I would help everyone and discovered that I had no one to help me....i had to take some of my time back for me.....lovin me

Hi...My birthday is Feb...28 I love poetry and dancing....laughing and being happy...I tend to make a fantasy life until the one that I have is what i desire....sometimes I hate that....I can't deal with sadness...I love people bu than I can be a loner....i forgive easily but if misused the trust is never to same....get so involve with things can forget about myself...working on that....care taker...working on helping self more.....finding self loving self

whatever you do...do something...take control of the situation...don't let it control you...know that we all are different in some way...so enbrace and control it...I think everyone has given you good advice...this is a very caring group...so use this group as one of your positives...

peace and happiness

Hi everyone

I read my scope whenever I can to see how close it is to my actual life....I'm going through a weird stage in my life.....kinda rebirthing that I've finally enbraced....which has made my heart lighter....I'm a positve person and feel that there should never be a sad day....but I am finding out that it is o.k. to be sad...it is apart of life aswell as happiness...

peace

just wanted to say Hi....and continue healing....

peace

First You Need to know that you are loved....you are loved...you are loved....it doesn't matter how someone has treated you in the past...what they said to you...what they have taken from you...from this point you must take back your life.....from everyone.....if you are not well you can not begin to take care of you kids...you need to take time to focus on making yourself well....pray for enlightenment and peace.....pray that you can find you happiness inside yourself....happiness is not held by people.....your happiness belongs to you and only you...God wants us all to be happy....give up your past and believe that you have a future...learn from the past but let it be what it is.....the past.....

you have a story to tell...

I'm not sure of the relationship with him but I do know that if you made a attempt to get back with him and didn't work he knows you heart.....just focus on yourself and develop friendships...

love god -self- kids- first..... if you can't love your self than you can't love you kids....

I agree

I'm not sure what happen to bring him to this point...sometimes it just by choice...but the question is...do you think that you deserve someone to cheat on you...are you that comfortable with your life that your willing to except anything even if that person isn't honoring your temple....you need to talk to him if you haven't.....you are a wonderful person and the other women is just that....take control and show him that youd deserve more take back your life...men think that if you stay at home and don't go out with you friend that they have you and your devoted to them no matter what show him that you are not and you love yourself more....yes self love....do you love yourself more than you love your husband....or do you just love him.....I know because I had to do the same thing....now he's wondering if I have someone...nature yourself...get massages...get you hair done ....do what ever makes you feel special....not for him for you.....peace

we do the best with the knowledge we have.....it's easy to give advice if we're not in the situation...I'm not saying that it is'nt good advice ....it is...but when your actually in the situation it's different...we react with our broken heart and must do what we can to heal the pain...no matter how crazy....we are all human and capable of mistakes just like everone else....just like he made mistakes you capable of the same.....sometimes I think that some of us are to

harder on our selves,,,,we are all human......so if you do make a mistake learn from it don't beat yourself up about it....peace

To speak truthfully....we are good sex partners..just keeping it real...smile but I have kids so at one time are another you have to grow up and be parents....my kids are older now which has enabled me to breath and look at my life.....I've discovered my love for poetry again....I go to poetry set twice a week and I 'm trying to find myself again...sometimes you can get lost with taking care of everyone except yourself....I decided that i had to stop and think about me......I've stop doing things to please everyone and not please me....even the little things.....I would buy food that everyone liked even if I wanted something else...it may seem little but you learn to tell yourself that your not important....it a mental conditioning....I hang out with my friends more....

I'm not saying that it will be easy but you seem farther alone than me....we've talk about devorce but it was just a conversation....I just can't think of being by myself...I've always had a boyfriend/husband....but I plan on letting it go....I just trying to get our bills together because he is my friend.....we just can't live together.....sometimes I wonder if I should wait until the kids get bigger....

I've been been married for 19 years...been with the same person for 30 years....I want to leave becuase of past events...i finding it hard to break the ties.....not sure if i'm just going to a stage or truly hurt by life with him....we have had good times...but I can't get over the bad...

Just let it go he was a jerk....or something else happen.... regardless ...don't respond ...you give up to much power when you do...

relationships are hard even when you think that you have them figured out you discover that you don't.....people or people and make mistakes....change...grow... and regress....the problem comes when it's time to let go ...when you should..you don't.....I do believe in the saying....if you have a butterfly... let it go ...and if it comes back... it was yours....if it doesn't ... it never was...I think people are the same way...you can't hold on to somethings that wants to be free....it

will treats you badly becuase of your tight grip......