I am Aquarian and for some strange reason could not undersatndw hy I kept being very strongly attracted to Tayrean males in the first days of May. Then I found the majority of my other horoscope aspects were in Capricorn. We do have a very strong basic core nature of wanting to put basic things, first and home, family and relationships. But as an Aquarian I am very happy to going with the flow and fast ebb and current of my thoughts, life, feeligns and experience and like a goat can clim and leap from crag to crag, the bull wants to be lying in his field, not have anything to think or do or worry about and happily chew teh grass and wander around the same old field without any need or feeling to go any further or seek for anything better. Especially if it demands any extra thought or effort. He even prefers his females to be in the same field and where he wants them so he can just go up to them and give them a quick nuzzel and a quick bonk. He does like his sex and sexuality. but basically he is a lazy guy. And no matter how much he loves you, if you make it in any way more diifcult and eh ahs to think about the relationship or you too much, he wont try harder he'll just bugger off. He likes the female to loook after him - as is his right and her to think about the relationship, home, kids housework, decorating without bothering or involving him too much. He does not mind doing manly stuff and helping out round the house just as long as it reinforces his manly ego and he is told what to do and not have to think about it too much. Of course it does matter what other stars are in his sign.
My own ploy, when I remember and don't go off my feelings but use my head (more useful for cognitive signs such as Taurus and Aquarius) is to remember Bulls are attracted to following the sense - what they see and hear, they respond to outside stimuli - and that you cannot push or pull or bully and mentally or emotionally manipulate a bull. But you can lead him by the nose, Little pulls towards the direction you want him to come in help. He can be gently guided and is really quite thick when you do so. Any pulling or pushing and you will get the stubborness again. But it can be done. He also does not appreciate if you are always there and always willing to please and listen to him. You can end up like a surogate mum with added sex benefits. Read "Why Men like Bitches" and learn to hold off and not show you feelings and love so much. He really does respond to a challenge and something which is not easy but interesting. - He is a Male Bull. Sorry, more male than the avergae male. All thos fantastique male qualities in quadruplicate but also all the agravating male qualite also. You would do well to develop some of the feminie subtle qualities of Pices and Scorpio women, who so much more subtle and ready to manipulate in relationships than the Aquarian who is honets and upfront. Be a little bit more difficult, not there and not so easy to please and seek a common friendship. He wants a woman not a mate and someone who will guide and challenge him even if he wants to remain feeling the boss. Good Luck. I Love Mine but I could happily kill him and trun him into mincemeat - and knows so. and it is what keeps him on his toes. I just need to back off and make sure my persoanl support comes form other places - not just him.