Anni I will definitely mail you. Thanks.
My Gem actually opologized for ignoring me and being so changable. He turned 50 and was having issues with it. My own issues will be come this year ;hitting 50. If I'm lucky they won't be bad cause turning 30 didn't bother me at all.
I know he is testing me as well to see if I'll stick around or give up him like his exes did.
That man is in for the shock of his life. I don't give up easily.
Hey I was married for 31 years , the last 10 were not good. I hate giving up on people.
He is also trying to deal with some info I gave him while we were having a bit of a disagreement. He finds it hard to believe that someone could ever want him unconditionally.
Seems to feel he doesn't deserve to be loved that way. Told him I want him just the way he is.
He still can't figure me out. I keep surprising him , sometimes I surprise myself.
I agree with the quirk comment. My Gem has lots of them but so do I.
I would not try to change him even if I could. This is one Gem I want to keep .
Guess I'm addicted to the way he smells all the time even when he is covered in sweat and grease and the way he looks in a tight pair of jeans or anything he wears or doesn't.
Of coarse our link helps to. I know how he feels it and it also scares him.
The romance and the sparks I understand completely. He lives right across the driveway from me. He is home and sound asleep right now. I can tell you what he's even dreaming about from the feel of his emotions. All I'll say is mmmmm my type of dream .lol I'll have to go visit him
in the morning.
As far as them being insensitive at times, yep been that route and the temper route. I found out how to calm him right down though and he stops in his tracks. I think I just thought of something else to try as well. We'll see if it works.
My daghter told my Gem since he was with her mother that made him a step grandpa. He likes that idea. He know has my autistic grandson answering a certain question on Q. Every time he asks the grandson where he got his big mouth from? my grandson answers" I got it from my Momma". You have to know my daughter to understand why that question is perfect. She loves to talk all the time.
Off to bed now. Worked all day in a chip truck.
Have a good night