the statement 'no offense, but' makes me laugh. Are you sure your not , what you think off as a controlling virgo, mean and insensitive? HaHa. If you feel like correcting them, do it! you would only be criticising them. Speaking as a true Virgo i wouldn't be offended, because as a true Virgo i know my own mind. Virgo may be the most misunerstood of the Zodiac, but to all you Virgos out there stop defending yourselves, you don't need to, you know you're right!!. I have many earth sign friends and know that i get along with them better than any other sign, the same as most fire, water and air will like their own kind or at least recognise themselves. As for being arguementative that's a matter for debate. I like to talk about most things and the best people to do that with are fellow earth signs, geminis are good as well, water signs, not so good because i find them too emotional and take things personally, they likewise find me too logical and cool, whose right? no-one because we all have our own perspective on things. I find that virgos are the most open minded people anyone could meet, as they really have looked at every angle of everthing!
Yes virgos can love and i think it's a very true love, because its a love that is given by them with knowing all kinds of their partners quirks, there isn't much that will surprise a virgo as they can sum up any situation or person instantly and if a virgo does'nt like what they see they won't enter into it, unless a person can be changed, but who really believes that? I don't think anyones here to change some-one else why should they? as for constant approval, it does'nt exist. I can live with that. It seems to me, being one of the most mis-understood signs, that it might be others closed-minded ignorance, not mine. As for saying we're controlling, who wants to control who? not me. If some find me too 'tidy' it might be i find them too'messy' so what? either accept it or walk away. How boring it must be to feel the need to change someone all the time, and worse complain that that person is different and cold, no their just not you! If a rugs fraying or your wearing odd socks and your virgo points this out it's an observation that they have made, not criticsism. If some ones so sensitive to themselves, perhaps they should be more accepting of others!