I am dating a guy, 4th time in 22 years. We dated my freshman year in high school, then I moved away, so we broke up. The second time, shortly after starting to see him, I discovered that I was pregnant, so cut off contact. The third time, I was in my 20s, couldn't find a job, and we were living with his parents. I moved back to my hometown, and had no more contact. This time, 14 years later, we are two completely different people. I still have many of the same feelings and he stated 4 months ago that he has loved me since he was 15. I realize that our signs aren't exactly compatible, and I am all about balancing of the scales, but I can't see someone being completely closed off and unhappy, and still being in a relationship like he appears. I do all the going to see him, etc, and now he stops calling all the time. We go days with no contact. Im ready to give up for the last time. Is it an aries, or just him. Seriously. I'm going crazy here.
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RE: How To Help And Aries Man Feel Better.
I too have an Aries man. I know what you are dealing with, as mine is easily hurt and has a hard time getting over things. I try to keep him built up, even though he doesn't act like he believes me. He laughs when I tell him things like like he's so handsome, which he truly is. They have a hard time believing in themselves and he carries so much of a burden on his back. I joke around with my Aries man, which seems to lighten his mood. When I compliment him, he plays it off, but I know it makes him feel good whether he will admit it or not. I see the demons they carry and its hard knowing they struggle so much with them. Any man loves to feel that he is invinsible, and complimenting them does help them. I think with an Aries man though, you have to go above and beyond in that department. They have big hearts that get hurt easily, and they take it personally. We have a lot of fun, and he's smiles more all the time, which is a relief. He is getting better. He told me that himself. I'm not sure why the Aries is so hard on himself, but they are. What helped me was reading act like a lady, think like a man. These methods work best on an Aries man, because they seem to carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Compliment, compliment, compliment. HOpe this helps