u just confuse and somewhat insecure in a way your looking for this guys, like ideal care nd pampering and ryt now u just can't figure out yet..so i can say,ur a bit playful for now, not just with your feelings alone but to the guys as well.and i think that's ok, not gettin' too serious with it and your in this exploring thing or something. just bare in yourself this phrase, 'what u sow is what u reap'.there's no bad to be playful as long u had this good intention figuring out what you're true feelings in 'em but just be sure they are of the same path as you.maybe, u decide for now who's ur pick?:)goodluck