He is not involved in her life she is 2. I left him when she was less than a month old. I ended up getting a protection order, because while we were together he has an alcoholic, and was physically and mentially abusive. He willingly sign away all visitation and decisions to her. The older child u may be seeing is may be one if his other kids. He has 3 older children that he isn't involved with either .
My plan was when she was ready she would be able to seek him out. I an just worried about now I don't want him too hurt her with all of his broken promises.