I cant believe what I'm reading !!!!!! I've been with a cancer man(I'm a Gem), for 10 years off and on....simply because he can't make up his mind if he want's to be with me or not . Everything you all are posting is exactly what I have seen and been going through. The wisest thing I've read was, dont listen to their words.......watch their actions. I have felt like a Yo-Yo for so long now, and have wanted to give up this relationship so many times, but this guy has my heart and I cant seem to let him go. I thought he was just a psycopath, because of how he was and acted.....maybe it's just the cancer thing.