When we speak of the front door, are we literally talking about the front door, or the door which is used the most as a front entrance? Our formal front door faces west, the one we use faces north.
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RE: Feng shui for cats
CatWhisperer, have you tried an animal psychic? I hope nobody thinks I'm off my rocker, but I had one of my dogs "read" after she was hit by a car. She survived but was very depressed for some time, and I was willing to try anything to help her. The psychic was AMAZINGLY HELPFUL. Her insight was tremendous, and my dog began to recover in leaps and bounds after "talking" to the psychic. I also know several animal people who have used psychics with great success, from horses to dogs.
Good luck with your baby!
RE: Astrology and Compatibility?
Aqua, when you talk about tightness of orbs, what numbers are we looking at? It gives me an orb number and a value, for example, Sun square Moon, orb 4.04, value -61. Is it the orb or the value I'm looking at, and what do the numbers mean, in other words, does a higher or lower number show me there is more influence?
Worthy, not only am I a Gemini but my ascendant is also Gemini, and my Moon is in Virgo! Yikes! How much more critical can I be???
I know it's complex but I am curious about the compatibility thing. I'm a double Gemini yet I married a Cancer (rising sign Pisces if the chart is correct.) Why?
In the last few years I've increasingly wondered what the heck we are doing together when we really don't have that much in common. We do well together in money matters, and he's BRILLIANTLY intelligent -- I mean, genius intelligent, and I love that -- but his moodiness, neurotic behavior, hangups about his past, insecurity, and the TESTING, among many other things, drives me nuts. We've been married for nearly 12 years and we rarely out-and-out fight, but it isn't fulfilling, either. I feel like I'm suffocating under a wet blanket a lot of the time.
On the other hand, I'm not perfect. Like I said, looking at this chart -- whew -- I have a lot to work on and a lot to keep under wraps!
Would anyone like to practice a reading on me?
What do you need to know to get started? Birthday is June 4, 1968 at 0541 in Phoenix, AZ.
Just wondering about career path, as in, am I going to be successful (going to school now to switch gears in my professional life) or will I have to stay in my current situation to stay afloat?
Second question is about travel -- anything in the works?
Third is married life -- do you see anything there, for better or for worse?
RE: Astrology and Compatibility?
Wow Aqua, thanks! Do you do readings? I can look stuff up in books and on the internet, but I have a hard time putting it all together, since some of the information contradicts itself. Plus, some of it I simply don't understand. All I know is that it's kind of discouraging to see all the things in black and white that you always kind of knew but didn't want to admit to. I was trying to go through this chart and thought whoa, I'm really a bad person. I feel like it should cut to the chase and say, "You have no soul and should stay away from people, ALL people; becoming a sniper is your best option." Lots of squares and bad stuff in this chart. I feel so sorry for my husband.
RE: Astrology and Compatibility?
Looks like the 9th house and Midheaven, whatever that means? I wonder if this is a typo though, is it possible to have the same sign over TWO houses? They've got Leo on both 3rd and 4th houses on this chart and Aquarius on the 9th and 10th houses. It looks like they've skipped over Virgo and Pisces entirely in terms of houses.
They've got Gemini first house (ascendant), Cancer 2nd, Leo 3rd and 4th, Libra 5th, Scorpio 6th, Sag 7th, Cap 8th, Aquarious 9th and 10th, Aries 11th, and Taurus 12th.
Astrology and Compatibility?
Can anyone tell me what this chart is most compatible with? Least compatible with? Can a chart actually tell you what your sexual preference is (in terms of what turns you on)?
Lilith: Taurus (what is this?)
Asc node: Aries (what is this?)
RE: How do you know when a cancer is 'testing' you?
Hi Maria, I've been married to a Cancer man for almost 12 years. I'm awfully late in this discussion because I'm new to the forum, and I have to admit that I haven't read all the posts in this thread -- but from my personal experience, Cancers NEVER stop testing you. I'm not sure they ever completely trust, either. There's always an excuse as to their behavior or beliefs, it's always something that happened in the past, even though the past was usually so long ago and the circumstances are sometimes way beyond ridiculous. There are times when I've had to (ever-so-gently, because you know how sensitive these people are!!!!) tell him to try to let go of his past, because it's interfering with his NOW.
The good news is that he's really good about trying to improve, even if it's bit by bit.
RE: Need help from geminis out there! PLS HELP!!!
Whoa -- you really hit the nail on the head Cavite! I too am a Gemini female, and I am the same way. I really hate being tested ("well if you really loved me..." sort of crap) and I have a very low tolerance for those kinds of games. I can't handle insecurity, neediness, moodiness or jealousy. I also can't be "bought." The more somebody tries to do "nice things" for me to win me over, the more it disturbs me because I feel like I'm being smothered, controlled or manipulated.
Unfortunately, I take "nice things" for granted because they don't have a lot of value to me. If a man buys me a fancy coffee from Starbucks, that is NICE, but what I REALLY value is a good conversation about some exciting new idea or project he is working on -- what I REALLY like in a person is independence, intelligence, and people who INSPIRE me. I LOVE the person who has real hobbies and new and innovative thoughts -- genuinely -- not those who are doing things for show in order to win friends, lovers, or impress other people.
But you know, I do go back and reconnect with my old friends now and then, even the ones who get on my nerves after a while (although I've only gone back to an old lover once, and I won't do it again) though I really don't feel the need to be in close contact. I just want to know if they are okay and like to know what kinds of exciting things are going on.
I'd move on if a Gemini dumped me. The more you stick around the worse off you will be, IMO. Break it off cold turkey if you can, go find a new life. He may or may not reconnect -- I can't speak for all Geminis of course -- but he'd be more likely to contact you out of curiosity if you just bailed out abruptly.
RE: Lost and confused
Hi Serious, please nobody flame me here, I'm new -- just wondering, have you had any changes in any medications or hormones lately? A few years ago the pharmacy changed my birth control pills -- they just went from a brandname to a generic -- and overnight I slipped into a serious depression. I couldn't tell anyone you know, I acted fine on the outside during the day, but on the drive home at night I would just SOB, I just wanted to kill myself. Long story short I'm off the pills altogether, and it helped. It took some time to feel better. My husband and best friend totally chastised me after that ("WHY didn't you tell us???") but I just didn't feel like anybody could possibly help. Plus, I was embarassed.
Take a look, medication and hormone changes can be BIG.
I'm New Here!
I'm new and just kind of getting familiar with the forum here. According to my chart I am a DOUBLE Gemini (heaven help me!), moon in Virgo. Um, yes, I AM difficult. Just ask my husband. I've been married for 11.5 years to a Cancer man.
Sooo... helllooooo everyone!