What is your sign? Also, as a Taurus female, I need to be assured that I'll have attention and security and if I feel like those needs of mine are not being met, it will depress me and even if my lover means the world to me, I'll feel like I'll have no other choice but to move on and eventually find another lover who will provide me with attention and security. Yes, it may be quite painful for not just him, but for me as well, if not more so than him. On the other hand, it depends on the person too. Right now, I myself am having difficulties with my boyfriend who is a Gemini and yes, the two of us are an odd couple, but we have known each other on and off for nearly 25 years and we just met up with each other last November after being separated for 15 years. We are what you call Long Lost Lovers. He drives me crazy and we butt heads because I can be overbearing and he can be back and forth. However, my moon sign is Libra, so that could be of some help to me also. But getting back to you, advice would be this, you know the saying, If you love someone, sent them free. If they come back to you they're yours forever, if they don't then they never were, haven't you? Well, take that saying into consideration, although I know that's easier said than done.
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RE: I need advice from Taurus women!!!
Fixing relationship problems with a Gemini man
I need some suggestions on how to repair a relationship issue with my Gemini boyfriend. I'm a Taurus woman and even though I understand we're an odd couple, we've known each other for many years on and off and our flaws cause the two of us to butt heads. I tend to be overbearing and he tends to be back and forth. Right now, we mutually agreed to not spend much time together and to give each other space, which I know Geminis happen to appreciate. My grandmother was a Gemini and my grandfather was a Taurus and they both remained married until death did them part. Also, my moon sign is Libra and I believe that could help me too. I was also told by somebody else that the more freedom I let a Gemini have, the more he'll feel comfortable comfortable with me and he'll want to be with me more. I'm just afraid that since a Gemini's mind goes a mile a minute, it will be out of sight, out of mind with him. Although that could be in any relationship, whether it's regarding zodiac signs or not. I just was wondering if anybody has any other ideas on it in their own words or similar ideas.
I am a Taurus woman and my boyfriend is a Gemini. I know that's a very opposite match, but we have known each other sporadically for nearly 25 years and just recently, we caught up with one another after 15 years of being separated, which makes us both Long Lost Loves.
Anyhow, my twin man is intelligent, funny, creative, brilliant, talented and out going, those are his good points. His bad points are he's narcissistic, self-centered, fickle and very spontaneous. He does everything at the spur of the moment and it seems as if he gets together with me on his terms and it makes me feel rejected.
My grandmother was a Gemini and my grandfather was a Taurus and they stayed married until death. I know of a woman who's a Virgo and she was married to a compatible sign which happened to be Capricorn and the two of them are separated. On the other hand, sun signs aren't the only aspect I should depend on because there's other factors that are involved such as moon signs, houses, planets, etc and my moon sign is Libra, so that could also be helping me keep up with him too.
I came here to ask for help on how to handle my relationship with my Gem lover because although we are clearly astrologically different, we do want this to work, even though he doesn't pay attention to horoscopes. There's the old saying, "If you love somebody, set him free, if he comes back to you, he's yours forever, if he doesn't, then he never was." I strongly believe that if we were separated for such a long time and then ironically, by coincidence, ran into each other again, then there's a strong possibility that we both were meant to be. There are reasons for everything that happens and I'm sure that we could get used to each other's lifestyles, I just need some advice on how to deal with his chameleon like nature.